Imagine being raised with strict, non-western principles, only to have your mom blame your personality for your mental health struggles. That’s exactly what happened to a 28-year-old woman who’s been battling depression. Her 62-year-old mom, who admits to having been hard on her daughter, tried to understand why she’s struggling. But when the conversation turned sour, the mother made a shocking statement that left her daughter fuming.
A Rough Relationship
Outdated Parenting ️
The Argument Begins ️
Grades and Frustration
Triggering Question ❓
The Blame Game Begins
A Painful Memory
Harsh Punishment
Regret and Explanation
The Controversial Statement
Escalation and Accusations
Depression and Personality
Sister Comparison
Husband’s Opinion
Different Treatment for Sisters
Mom’s Shocking Statement Leaves Daughter Furious
In a heated argument about her daughter’s depression, this mom made a controversial statement that left her daughter fuming. The mother admitted that her strict parenting style might have contributed to her daughter’s mental health struggles, but she also blamed her daughter’s personality, saying her sister was raised the same way and isn’t insecure. The daughter accused her mom of making her feel like she had to earn their love and approval, and called her an a**hole for suggesting she has a weak personality. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this explosive situation…
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“We didn’t do a great job raising you and made you feel like you were never good enough. But like, it’s still mostly *your* fault that you weren’t and still aren’t good enough.” That’s what she heard. And yes. YTA.
“Mental and emotional abuse is 100% the reason for your daughter’s mental health.”
“YTA. Forcing her to eat alone and standing for two weeks is terrible. And probably only the tip of the iceberg. “
“YTA: You shaped her personality. Your **ABUSE** shaped her personality.”
Explosive argument as mom blames daughter for mental issues
“YTA. Mixed signals, defensiveness, blaming her. It’s you. ♀️”
OP’s abusive upbringing led to a harmful cycle of abuse.
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YTA for blaming daughter’s personality, ignoring trauma’s impact
OP’s lack of accountability sparks heated argument.
Explosive argument erupts as commenter accuses OP of abuse!
Parent’s abusive behavior sparks outrage and condemnation. YTA!
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Explosive argument erupts as mom blames daughter for mental issues
YTA for blaming daughter’s personality & not taking responsibility
“Explosive argument erupts as mom deflects blame. YTA.”
Explosive argument erupts as abusive parents blame daughter for mental issues!
Mom’s strict parenting style causes daughter’s mental health issues
Parenting gone wrong! YTA for not considering the consequences
Blaming your daughter for your parenting? YTA and then some!
“YTA. Apologize for your cruel treatment, stop making excuses.”
“YTA. Blaming her personality for her mental issues is unfair.”
“YTA. Neglecting your daughter and blaming her personality? Yikes! “
“YTA. Abuse consequences? You didn’t see that coming? “
“YTA. Apologize without excuses. Take the L. Go to counseling.”
