Meet ‘David’ and his ex-wife, who share a 7-year-old daughter named ‘Lily.’ After their divorce, David remarried, but his ex-wife has yet to meet his new spouse. With Lily’s birthday party coming up, the ex-wife is in charge of planning and inviting guests. When David insists on bringing his new wife, the ex-wife puts her foot down, refusing to allow the woman who played a part in their divorce to attend. Is she being overly protective, or is her decision justified? ♀️ Read on to find out!
The Divorce and Lily’s Birthday

Party Planning and Invitations

No Issues with David’s Family

David’s New Wife Enters the Scene

Mom’s Concerns and Boundaries

David’s Argument ️

Mom’s Counteroffer

Accusations of Jealousy

Mom’s Final Word ♀️

EDIT: Clarifying the Stepmom Situation

Mom’s Dilemma: Protecting Her Daughter or Being Overly Controlling?
As the ex-wife plans Lily’s birthday party, she’s faced with a dilemma when David insists on bringing his new wife – a woman she believes played a part in their divorce. Despite David’s accusations of jealousy, the ex-wife stands her ground, refusing to allow the new wife to attend until they’ve had a proper conversation. Is she being overly protective, or is her decision justified? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA: Father’s inappropriate timing for introducing new wife at party

NTA. Mom rightfully bans ex’s new wife from daughter’s birthday party.

Inconsistent story raises doubts about father’s new wife’s involvement

Ex’s new wife not invited to daughter’s party. NTA.

Curious about custody and father’s involvement in Lily’s life?

Ex’s rush to marry raises eyebrows

Curious about Lily’s relationship with her dad and his wife?

NTA. Lily’s birthday isn’t the time for her to meet stepmom.

Commenter questions if mom is intentionally keeping stepmother away.

ESH for turning daughter’s party into a coming out party

Curious about Lily’s relationship with her dad’s new wife?

Controlling ex-wife bans ex-husband’s new wife from daughter’s party

Birthday party should be about the child, not meeting new wife.

NTA – Ex’s new wife excluded from daughter’s birthday party.

NTA – Ex’s new wife not welcome at daughter’s birthday party

Ex’s new wife not welcome at daughter’s party. NTA!

NTA: It’s your party, your rules!

Curious about the dynamics between ex, wife, and child.

NTA. First meeting at a birthday party? Not cool

NTA. Meeting the new wife at the birthday? No way!

OP is NTA for banning ex’s new wife from daughter’s party

NTA: Ex’s new girlfriend not welcome at daughter’s birthday party

Ex accuses mom of making it about herself, not daughter. NTA.
