We’ve all heard stories of in-laws causing drama, but this one takes the cake! Our protagonist, a new mom, was once close with her mother-in-law (MIL) until she got pregnant. Suddenly, the MIL’s attitude changed, and she became obsessed with the idea that her granddaughter looked nothing like the mom and everything like herself and her son. The tension reached a boiling point at a recent family dinner, where the MIL brought a scrapbook to prove her point. But wait till you hear how the no-nonsense grandma stepped in!
The MIL’s Sudden Change

The MIL’s New Behavior

Desperate Attempts for Attention

The Labor Room Drama

MIL’s Obsession with Granddaughter’s Looks

The Constant Comments

The Family Dinner Showdown

MIL’s Bold Claim

Husband’s Feeble Defense

No-Nonsense Grandma Steps In

The Aftermath

MIL’s Dramatic Exit

The Guilt Trip

MIL’s Relationship with Other Grandkids

A Pattern of Behavior?

MIL’s Obsession Leads to Family Face-Off
So, our protagonist’s MIL went from being a loving, supportive figure to a cold, distant one after her granddaughter was born. She became obsessed with the idea that the baby looked just like her and her son, completely ignoring the mom’s resemblance. At a family dinner, she even brought a scrapbook to prove her point, but the no-nonsense grandma was having none of it. She called out the MIL, who left in a huff, later demanding an apology. But the protagonist doesn’t feel bad, and many in the family seem to agree. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this wild situation…
Common MIL behavior sparks discussion on dysfunctional mother-son relationships

MIL’s passive aggression sparks family showdown, but OP is NTA

“NTA. My mother defended me from your negative comments. Perfect response!”

“Is calling someone’s child ugly insulting? I thought we agreed!”

NTA. MIL’s outrageous behavior called out by OP’s mom, causing tension.

NTA. MIL struggles with transitioning from center of family to peripheral.

Mom shuts down MIL’s genetic drama, family in awe

NTA – MIL jealous of baby taking her ‘n1’ spot

Power struggle with MIL over baby’s looks, NTA

NTA. MIL deserved it. Ownership over baby’s looks is ridiculous

NTA. MIL’s obsession with granddaughter causing family tension

MIL vs. Mom: A showdown over family resemblance! NTA

NTA. Your mom shut down grandma’s insecurities and embarrassed her

NTA. Husband shuts down MIL’s rude comment with epic response

Rock star mom shuts down MIL’s unsolicited opinions. NTA!

NTA – Husband’s denial of MIL’s behavior may endanger child’s safety

“NTA comment shuts down family drama. “

NTA. MIL needs therapy. Tell us about your badass mom!

NTA. MIL’s game backfires, maybe she won’t come around

“Family feud erupts over resemblance, sparks heated confrontation “

In-law drama over baby’s appearance sparks heated exchange

MiL vs. OP: Battle of the Generations! Who’s the a**hole?

Unhinged grandma thinks her grandchild is her own baby. NTA
