Imagine finding an activity that brings you joy, mental stability, and physical health, only to have it taken away when you need it the most. That’s the predicament one man finds himself in as he struggles to balance caring for his heavily pregnant wife and maintaining his own mental health. His wife’s reaction to his desire to attend martial arts classes has left him feeling sad and resentful. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story.
Discovering Martial Arts

A Healthier, Happier Life

Pregnancy Complications

Taking on Extra Duties

Missing Martial Arts

Mental Health Struggles

Mother-in-law’s Support

A Potential Solution

Grandma to the Rescue?

Wife’s Unexpected Reaction

Accusations of Abandonment

Mother-in-law’s Offer Rejected

Feeling Trapped and Resentful

Wife’s Demands

Caught Between Love and Mental Health
This husband is torn between his love for his pregnant wife and his need for an outlet to maintain his mental health. As he takes on extra duties to care for her, he’s left feeling trapped and resentful. His mother-in-law’s offer to help is met with resistance from his wife, who accuses him of abandoning her. With four months left in the pregnancy, he’s left wondering how he’ll survive this emotionally charged situation. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this delicate dilemma…
NTA, commenters agree that self-care is important for mental health

Taking care of yourself isn’t abandoning your wife
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Taking time for yourself is important, NTA.

Man’s dedication to wife during pregnancy sparks debate

Pregnancy pains and resentment lead to heated debate. NAH situation.

Debate over husband’s martial arts classes while wife is pregnant

Taking care of a pregnant wife is tough, but self-care matters

Pregnancy hormones or not, wife’s behavior is unacceptable. NTA

Pregnancy can be tough, make sure to check in on her mental health

Self-care is essential, even more so when caring for others
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NTA gets support for continuing martial arts during wife’s pregnancy

Pregnant wife ignores husband’s pain, sparks debate.

Offer a symmetric deal after the baby’s birth for both mental health

Supportive comment encourages man to prioritize his own well-being

Pregnant wife demands husband’s constant attention during martial arts class

Pregnancy hormones or not, NTA for needing an outlet

Defending martial arts as mental health therapy against unsupportive spouse

Not the a**hole for wanting 2 hours to himself.
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Supportive comment encourages self-care for expectant father

Taking time for oneself during pregnancy: reasonable or selfish?

Pregnant wife with sciatic pain sparks debate on independence. NTA.

Suggesting antenatal exercises for pregnant wife sparks helpful discussion

Pregnant wife vs martial arts: Is twice a week okay?

NTA comment sparks gender debate with supportive replies

Pregnancy is hard and different for everyone. Hormones can be uncontrollable

Navigating pregnancy and mental health can be tough

Pregnant wife’s refusal to let husband do martial arts – NTA

Debate over pregnant wife’s independence for a one hour appointment

Self-care is important. NTA for prioritizing martial arts over partner.

Pregnancy doesn’t justify being an a**hole

Man’s mental health needs dismissed by controlling wife

Pregnancy hormones vs mental health: Is he the a**hole?

NTA comment defends pregnant women’s capabilities, sparks debate

Commenter calls out selfish behavior in martial arts debate
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Taking a break is important for mental health

NTA. Commenter shares personal experience, calls out wife’s selfishness.

Debate over prioritizing martial arts over pregnant wife ignites
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Self-care is important for both partners

Man not at fault for practicing martial arts while wife pregnant
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Man wants to do martial arts, wife objects. Is he NTA?

Supportive comment: Man prioritizes mental health while helping pregnant wife

Supportive comment defends man’s decision to attend martial arts class.

Self-care important for caregivers, NTA comment sparks agreement.
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Prioritizing self-care while supporting pregnant spouse sparks support.

Debate over whether wife needs 24/7 care sparks confusion

Man’s dilemma sparks debate, but comment declares him NTA

Pregnant wife vs martial arts: Should he skip classes? NTA.

Moving at 5 months pregnant – FTM shares experience

Supportive comment receives positive feedback from community

Comment sparks debate on controlling behavior towards pregnant spouse

Self-care is important for caretakers’ mental health. NTA.

Man’s dilemma sparks debate on partner vs slave dynamic.

Fiery reply calls wife ‘selfish as f**k’

Pregnant wife needs to understand husband’s need for ‘me time’

Supportive comment advises giving wife alone time and setting boundaries

New dad gets criticized, but commenters agree: NTA

Chiropractor for pregnant wife? NTA gets agreement and advice.
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Self-care during pregnancy: NTA for taking an hour off

Getting advice from her mom might help
