Imagine being at a cottage, trying to work on your marriage, but your spouse just can’t stop texting their friend. That’s the situation one husband found himself in, leading him to take drastic measures. The couple was supposed to be focusing on their relationship, but the wife was more interested in her ‘writing friend’ and their roleplaying sessions. Frustrated, the husband decided to throw his wife’s phone out the window! Let’s dive into the details of this dramatic tale.
Cottage Getaway to Save Marriage

Marriage Issues, but No Major Betrayals

Wife’s ‘Writing Friend’

Unpublishable Gay Dark Academia

Wife’s Texting During Quality Time

Uncontrollable Stream of Ideas

Rejected Initiation and Phone Roleplaying

The Phone Toss Incident

Phone Survives, but Wife Furious

Husband Admits to Being the A**hole ♂️

Phone Toss: A Desperate Attempt to Save a Marriage?
In a desperate attempt to save their marriage during a cottage getaway, a frustrated husband threw his wife’s phone out the window when she wouldn’t stop texting her ‘writing friend.’ The couple was supposed to be working on their relationship, but the wife was more interested in her roleplaying sessions with her friend. Despite the husband’s plea for her to focus on their marriage, the wife continued to indulge in her unpublishable gay dark academia roleplay. The phone survived the toss, but the wife is furious and not speaking to her husband. Now, he’s left wondering if they both share the blame in this dramatic situation. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional rollercoaster.
Texting habits cause phone toss in fake university love affair. ESH.

Marriage crisis due to misinterpreted intimacy signals and dishonesty. ESH.

User shares personal experience, predicts relationship may not survive

Partner’s LARPing led to emotional cheating accusation and phone toss

Red flags raised as wife texts sexual content to friend. ESH.

Former roleplayer confirms wife’s texting is a sexual affair

Throwing things wasn’t the answer, but text role-playing is emotional cheating

NTA. Valid frustration with wife’s inappropriate texting habits and roleplaying.

Both parties have issues, separation may be the best solution

OP’s phone-tossing was a heat-of-the-moment decision, NTA.

Marriage in crisis as wife prioritizes texting over relationship. ESH/NTA.

Communication breakdown leads to phone toss. ESH for overall context.

Double standards in the comments, but cheating is unacceptable

Both are at fault. Wife’s behavior is sketchy and disrespectful.

Red flags raised over possible emotional affair

Red flag? Comment suggests counseling or divorce for awful wife.

Writer suggests NTA, but suspects wife is cheating through sexting.

Marriage in trouble? Counseling may be better than a cabin

Redditor calls out potential gender bias in judgment.

Couple’s cottage getaway ruined by wife’s texting habits. Husband throws phone

Cheating accusation in comment section leads to divorce advice

Roleplay hobby causing relationship issues, commenter suggests showing replies. NTA.

Couples counseling can create a safe space for communication ❤️

Dramatic phone toss after emotional affair. NTA, decide what’s next.

Writer defends husband, accuses wife of emotional cheating. NTA.

Former literary agent doubts wife’s writing career and commitment to marriage

User defends phone toss, accuses wife of cheating. NTA sentiment.

Hilarious comment on bizarre texting habits causing phone toss. ESH.

Spouse’s texting habits lead to phone toss; comment suggests divorce.

Writer calls out BS in marriage crisis, advises leaving. NTA

Marriage troubles and phone tossing, ESH but need communication.

Husband’s approach to wife’s texting habits is criticized. YTA.

NTA. Marriage can’t be saved if only one person tries.

Wife’s texting habits lead to phone toss – NTA, but hint taken

Red flags of emotional cheating, seek therapy for resolution. NTA.
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Spouse’s texting habits lead to justified frustration and phone toss

OP, throwing things is not the answer. YTA

NTA for tossing phone, wife checked out and not interested.

Wife’s emotional affair leads to phone toss. NTA but time to talk.

Sorry bro, she’s gone ♂️

Harsh advice from a commenter, marriage seems doomed

Phone tossing in marital retreat sparks debate on AH behavior.

Red flags in a failing marriage: YTA for phone toss, wife’s behavior worse
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Emotional affair alert! NTA, get a good lawyer and move on.

Partner’s phone addiction leads to relationship breakdown. NTA.
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Online gaming led to a friend’s divorce. Wife may have checked out

Engaging with the comment section’s top reply: a thoughtful and empathetic perspective.
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Wife’s texting habits lead to phone toss and cheating accusations

Counseling may be needed for this phone-tossing couple

Straightforward advice for a troubled marriage.

Is she living in a virtual world?

Marriage in crisis, both at fault, phone tossing childish

Prioritizing time is key. Harsh but honest advice.

Compromise is key in relationships. NTA.

User suggests ending a marriage due to emotional affair

A confession of emotional affair and advice to move on.

Communication breakdown leads to phone toss and ESH behavior.

Red flag raised: Commenter shares personal experience with similar behavior.

User calls out OP’s behavior and lack of respect towards wife.

Marriage troubles and lack of communication at the cottage ♂️

Wife seeks validation, husband seeks closeness. Marriage counseling recommended.

Redditor calls out aggressive post and labels OP as YTA
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NTA. Wife emotionally cheating, phone toss uncalled for but understandable

Seems like the wife has already checked out of the marriage

Engaging comment suggests wife may be neurodivergent, offers helpful advice.

NTA suggests couple therapy or leaving due to emotional cheating ♂️

Dump her immediately? Harsh, but NTA has a point ♂️

NTA relates to commenter’s RPG experience, expresses concern for OP’s marriage.

Advice on handling spouse’s hobby addiction and saving marriage

Suggestion to unplug and reconnect, suspicion of emotional affair.

NTA, but divorce may be the best option.

Emotional cheating or not, tossing the phone was justified. NTA

User suggests leaving wife over phone addiction and role playing.

NTA suggests leaving and working on marriage, no replies.

Emotional affair or not, throwing the phone was wrong. ESH.
