Imagine being torn between the love of your life and a child you helped bring into the world. This is the predicament our friend, let’s call him ‘Uncle Steven’, finds himself in. His long-time friends, a lesbian couple, asked him to be their sperm donor. The result? A beautiful little girl named Lucy. Uncle Steven has been a part of Lucy’s life since day one, but now his girlfriend of three years is demanding he cut ties.
A Childhood Friendship and a Special Request
Welcome, Baby Lucy!
Enter the Girlfriend ❤️
A Birthday Party Turns Sour
The Uncomfortable Truth Revealed
A Fight Ensues
Accusations Fly!
The Standoff
A Tough Decision
A Plea for Help
Caught in a Love Triangle: Man, His Girlfriend, and His Biological Daughter!
Uncle Steven, as he’s affectionately known, is caught in an emotional tug-of-war. On one side, his long-time friends and their daughter Lucy, who he helped bring into the world. On the other, his girlfriend of three years, who feels threatened by his bond with Lucy. A birthday party sparked a heated argument that brought all the underlying tensions to light. Now, Uncle Steven is left grappling with a tough decision: should he continue his relationship with Lucy, or prioritize his girlfriend’s feelings? It’s a true test of love, friendship, and responsibility. Let’s see what the internet thinks about this situation…
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Dump the girlfriend and never look back.
NTA but GF’s change of heart about OP’s bond with daughter
NTA, but why is she uncomfortable? Trust issues?
NTA. Love is not a zero sum game.
“NTA, demanding you cut off relationships is way over the line! “
“NTA. Understandable concerns about future family dynamics, but she overreacted! “
Jealousy and love: A child caught in the middle
NAH – Girlfriend didn’t expect his involvement with his biological child
NTA: Girlfriend’s trust issues and jealousy create tension in relationship!
NTA! Your bond with Lucy is special and shouldn’t end.
NTA BUT I’d stop calling her your daughter.
NAH. A complex situation with differing perspectives and valid concerns.
Embracing a Unique Family Dynamic Can Enrich Everyone’s Lives!
NTA. Girlfriend’s jealousy of a six year old is toxic
Concerns about the impact of a unique bond on future family.
NTA; Lucy is a part of you, and your life, always.
NTA’s relationship in jeopardy due to false accusations and miscommunication!
Heartwarming bond with daughter sparks tension, but love prevails!
NTA. Lucy’s insecurity puts your relationship at an impasse.
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GF jealous of bio daughter, could lead to ultimatum.
“NTA. Brenda’s daughter is lucky to grow up loved “
OP’s dilemma: balancing love for biological daughter and current girlfriend.
ESH for not communicating earlier about their respective concerns.
NTA. Girlfriend’s selfishness threatens uncle/niece bond.
Pregnancy hormones can make us act out of character ♀️
Subreddit’s black-and-white judgments spark call for relationship advice
NTA: Trust issues and underlying problems? Good luck, man!
Dating someone with kids vs. being a sperm donor
YTA for not disclosing your family situation sooner.
Donor dad’s involvement sparks tension, girlfriend doesn’t recognize family.
Complicated situation with no right answer. Sympathize with GF’s insecurities.
NAH, but an impasse. Honest communication is key for resolution.
NTA: A sweet bond with your daughter should always come first!
NTA, but waiting 4 months was a bit of a d**k move
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Supportive comment: Friendships and family should be cherished. NTA!
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Heartwarming support for a special bond!
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NTA-
Girlfriend’s possessiveness threatens lifelong friendship. Relationship at risk.
Being a package deal in a blended family is completely valid!
Commenter defends OP’s bond with child, criticizes girlfriend’s insecurity.
NTA, seek couples counseling to address jealousy. Don’t rush decisions!
NTA. Girlfriend’s jealousy raises red flags. Choose family over insecurity.
She assumes your past relationship with Brenda was sexual.
Engaging comment defending involvement with biological daughter and friend’s daughter!
Girlfriend wants out, but asking to cut off relationship? NTA
NAH. Complicated situation tests relationship. Time to go separate ways.
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NTA: Embrace your bond with your bio daughter and communicate openly.
Dump her! Insecure and disgusting comments about Brenda.
Curious about the fertilization method? Let’s find out!
Unbreakable bond with daughter despite tension. NTA!
Engaging comment about boundaries and future family dynamics.
