Imagine coming home from a grueling night shift, and all you want is to unwind with a glass of bourbon. Sounds reasonable, right? Well, not for our Night Owl (29m), whose morning ritual stirred up a whirlwind of drama with his live-in girlfriend (27f). This tale of love, control, and a glass of bourbon is sure to keep you on the edge of your seat. Let’s dive into the drama!
Love Nest or Pressure Cooker?

Unemployment Blues and Constant Scrutiny

Morning Bourbon, Evening Controversy

The Unveiling of the Bourbon

Morning Drinking or Evening Unwinding?

The Clash of Perspectives ⏰

The Morning Standoff

The Fallout: Silence and Hurt Feelings

A Moment of Reflection

A Glimpse of Hope?

Bourbon at Dawn: A Tale of Love, Control and Unwinding
After a night shift, our Night Owl comes home to unwind with a glass of bourbon, only to find himself in a whirlwind of drama with his girlfriend. Her disapproval of his morning ritual leads to a heated confrontation, leaving both parties hurt and confused. While he acknowledges his outburst may have been harsh, he stands by his right to unwind as he pleases. As the dust settles, he reflects on the incident, hoping for understanding and patience from both sides. Will this couple navigate their way through this storm in a teacup? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️
NTA. Third shift work is different, morning is different.

NTA, relax with a bourbon after night shift.

3rd shift workers share their love for morning indulgences. ☕️
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Grilling burgers and downing brews at 7:30am? Living life unconventionally!

Drinking on your own time? NTA! Control freak alert
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Communication breakdown: confronting smothering feelings with mixed reactions

“Smothered” after 3 weeks? Job search in pandemic is tough

Night shift friends enjoy post-work drinks, totally normal!

Night shift workers bond over early morning drinks

Drink up! Mind your own business, you’re an adult

Cheers to morning bourbon! NTA for enjoying a little indulgence.

Morning bourbon: acceptable or a sign of a bigger issue?

NTA explains night shift to 5-year-old, gets sarcastic support.

NTA: Stand your ground and communicate your feelings calmly. ️

NTA. Morning bourbon after overnight shift, not a problem. Apologize kindly.

Is intelligence a factor in a healthy relationship?

NTA. Happy hour at 7 am? Scrubs and drinks!

Supportive spouse embraces unconventional meal times. NTA!

Drink bourbon at 7am because life is stressful and horrible
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Drinking in the morning: acceptable or cause for concern?

Unwinding with morning bourbon: NTA or a**hole in disguise?

Drink up! You’re an adult and deserve some bourbon freedom
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Early morning bourbon: NTA, bars open for night shifters! ☕
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Unwinding with a bowl after work: Empathy through experience

NTA – Girlfriend lacks intelligence, sparks drama. ♂️

Morning bourbon drama: NTA, it’s not really morning for you
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Night shift worker faces control issues from partner. Red flags!

NTA for confronting girlfriend about morning drinking, but E-S-H for overreacting

Embrace your unconventional habits! Breakfast for dinner, anyone?

Drinking at night after work? NTA, not in the morning!

NTA. She doesn’t understand time zones. ⏰
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2020: The year of “f**k it, give me a shot for breakfast”

NTA: Roommate doesn’t understand night shift schedule, but communication needed.

Night shift worker defends morning beer but advises better communication.

Late-night worker defends morning bourbon tradition, no judgment here

Drinking in the morning: Love or Control? Discussing boundaries

Night owls unite! No judgment on late-night bourbon cravings!

Cheers to the night owls who drink and complain together!

Late-night drink waiting for me, love or control?

Cheers to the nightshift workers who enjoy a morning moonshine

Having a drink after work is fine, no judgment here!

Cheers to you! NTA for enjoying a post-work drink

Cheers to the night owls! NTA for enjoying your morning bourbon

Night shift bonding: drinks, YouTube, and videogames

You’re not the a**hole, but your delivery could use work

NTA. Partner’s ignorance about your schedule causes unnecessary tension.

Cheers to ending the day on your own terms!

Enjoying a morning drink: NTA and the evil eye

Understanding the night shift struggle: NTA, have a calm conversation.

Night shift workers bond over late-night struggles.
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NTA: Set boundaries or risk a breakup. Recipe for disaster.

Enjoy your drink whenever you want!

Night shifters unite!

Drinking at sunrise: A night owl’s misunderstood morning routine

“Unpopular profession? Are you a cop? “

Not the a**hole for stirring up morning drama

NTA, graveyard workers deserve morning bourbon too!

Drinking in the morning after work: NTA, no harm done!

NTA. Night owls unite!

Morning wine for boyfriend: NTA, she needs to understand!

Night shift lifestyle: NTA’s bourbon-fueled mornings and understanding girlfriends

Embrace your freedom! Enjoy a drink anytime, no justification needed
