Imagine coming home from a long day at work to a romantic surprise meal, and an even bigger surprise – a three-week vacation! Sounds dreamy, right? Well, not for our 30-year-old hero. His excitement quickly turned into a nightmare when he found out his wife’s entire family, who he, let’s just say, isn’t a big fan of, would be joining them. Now he’s stuck between a rock and a hard place, trying to decide whether to endure three weeks of family drama or risk the wrath of his wife.
Meet the Unwanted In-Laws

The Big Reveal!

Excitement Turns to Dread

A Hard No ✋

The Fallout

The Aftermath ️

Caught in the Crossfire: A Vacation Dilemma ♂️
Our hero finds himself in a pickle. His wife’s surprise romantic gesture turned into a nightmare when he found out her entire family would be joining them on their vacation. Despite his best efforts to tolerate them, the thought of spending his precious vacation days with his in-laws is a hard pass. He’s now torn between the guilt of making his wife upset and the dread of a vacation turned chaotic family circus. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this tricky situation…
NTA. Dude. A three week vacation with *anyone* is tough after a bit. I can’t imagine doing it with family, people I don’t like, and other people’s children. That’s nightmare type s**t.

Nightmare vacation with family-in-law for 3 weeks? No way! NTA

Vacation turns into h**l! NTA for wanting peace

NTA: Tricked into a nightmare vacation with in-laws!

NTA: Vacation planning is like buying a pet with your SO

NTA: Setting boundaries with in-laws on family vacations

NTA. Surprise family invasion on vacation = a**hole move

Setting boundaries with family: NTA for wanting alone time

NTA: Boundaries matter! Don’t let in-laws ruin your dream vacation!

NTA: Communicate your love and boundaries, no wasting precious vacation time!

Vacation nightmare! NTA’s in-law invasion leads to divorce risk?

NTA. Inconsiderate family-in-law ruins dream vacation without discussion. Nightmare!

NTA: Remind her of the terrible family vacation, ask for alone time

Mixed feelings about partner’s family, but empathy is important.

NTA: Compromise by going for a week, but leaving is worse.

ESH for planning vacation without spouse but YTA for hating family

YTA- Disrespectful towards wife’s family, causing tension in marriage.

Importance of compromising and supporting your partner in family situations.

“YTA. Rejecting wife’s family for vacation? Choose: family or you.”
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Last Updated on September 22, 2023 by Diply Social Team