Imagine winning a life-changing amount of money at a casino, only to face a moral dilemma with your fiancée. That’s exactly what happened to this 31-year-old man who won big while on vacation with his fiancée. However, instead of celebrating, they found themselves in a heated debate over whether he should use the winnings to pay off her massive debt. Let’s dive into their story and see if he’s making the right decision.
The Engaged Couple
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Fiancée’s Debt Struggles
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Her Spending Habits ️
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Working to Pay Off Debt
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Vacation and Casino Jackpot ️
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The Money Debate
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Silent Treatment
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Parents Get Involved
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Mother’s Expectations ♀️
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His Decision
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Trust Issues
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Desperate Search
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Family’s Opinion ️
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His Concerns
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To Share or Not to Share?
This man found himself in a tricky situation after winning a large casino jackpot. His fiancée, who struggles with debt and poor spending habits, begged him to use the winnings to pay off her debt. However, he has concerns about her going right back into debt and doesn’t trust her with the money. Instead, he plans to use it for bills, mortgage, and his car loan. Her family believes he should share the money, but he stands firm in his decision. What do you think of this dilemma? Let’s see what the internet has to say…
Red flags in relationship: fiancée trashes room for money. NTA.
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Fiancée trashed his room to steal money, NTA, run away.
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Fiancée has maxed out credit cards, trashed room looking for money
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NTA. Marriage is a partnership, not a debt trap.
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Cut ties with financially unstable partner. NTA.
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Don’t marry someone you don’t trust with money
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“NTA” but bigger problems than casino winnings and fiancée’s debt.
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NTA commenter advises to run from fiancée who trashed room
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Don’t rush into marriage if there are financial trust issues.
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Red flag alert! NTA for refusing to pay fiancée’s debt
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NTA. Keep finances separate if you marry. Prioritize marriage over frivolity.
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Harsh advice for an engaged couple headed towards divorce
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User sympathizes with OP and advises to reconsider engagement. NTA
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Money talk before marriage is crucial, even if NTA
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Red flag alert! OP needs to reassess their relationship. NTA.
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NTA, but reconsider the relationship. Get a prenup.
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NTA advises caution before marrying someone with debt
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Debt and spending addiction? Think twice before tying knot.
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User advises caution to man refusing to pay fiancée’s debt
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Red flags everywhere.
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Don’t let her drag you down with her debt NTA
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Red flag alert! Trust issues in a relationship can be deal-breakers
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Fiancée’s debt not husband’s responsibility. Postpone wedding until resolved.
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Engaged to a financial burden? Maybe it’s time to reconsider
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Man wins big at casino but refuses to pay fiancée’s debt . Commenters support his decision to not take responsibility.
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Financial red flags in relationship, consider Dave Ramsey intervention or leave ❌
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NTA. Red flags in her behavior and financial responsibility
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NTA refuses to pay fiancée’s debt, commenters support decision
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Fiancée in debt, man refuses to pay. Is marriage doomed?
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Money issues in relationships can lead to major conflicts
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Redditor suggests breaking off engagement due to fiancée’s behavior
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Engaging in a debate about finances in a relationship
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Couple needs to be transparent about finances, reevaluate relationship. NTA.
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NTA suggests financial counseling for fiancée with debt issues.
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Fiancée trashed his room, he’s NTA for refusing to pay debt
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NTA but financial planning is crucial for a successful marriage
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Marrying someone with debt? NTA for refusing to pay.
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Consider the red flags before marrying someone with poor finances
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Marriage means joint finances. Red flag that her family disagrees.
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NTA. Partner’s financial irresponsibility and entitlement is concerning
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Fiancée trashed his room and tried to steal his money. NTA.
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OP refuses to pay fiancée’s debt, commenters warn of red flags
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Financially responsible advice for fiancé’s cc debt
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NTA thinks fiancée’s addiction is causing debt and entitlement
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Money issues causing pre-marital conflict. Reconsider marriage plans.
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Fiancée trashed OP’s room, tried to steal. NTA, marinara flag.
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NTA commenter advises re-thinking marriage due to financial disagreements.
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Protect your finances and run! NTA
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Think twice before marrying someone with debt and spending habits
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Red flags in fiancée’s debt and family’s expectations. NTA.
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Living together and splitting bills could be a safer option
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NTA chose responsibility over selfishness, but relationship may need work.
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Consider if she’s the one. Her debt will become yours. #NTA
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NTA. Fiancée needs help with budgeting and debt. Discuss finances before marriage.
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NTA, but marrying someone you don’t trust?
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Questioning the trust in the relationship before marriage
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User advises against marrying fiancée and suggests prenup.
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Fiancée trashed room for money, reacted like an addict. NTA.
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Pre-marital counseling advised for fiancée’s debt and spending habits.
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Don’t marry someone in debt with a spending addiction.
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Fiancée tried to steal from him, NTA for refusing to pay debt
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NTA, but she needs therapy and financial counseling ASAP
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Red flags raised after fiancée trashes room looking for money
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Red flag alert! NTA and reconsider the relationship
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NTA commenter advises against paying fiancée’s debt, suggests financial incompatibility.
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Partner’s debt and behavior raises red flags, reconsider marriage
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Partner’s shopping addiction? NTA for not paying debt.
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NTA, but fiancée’s financial irresponsibility is a red flag
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NTA refuses to pay fiancée’s debt, warns of wedding cancellation
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Last Updated on February 13, 2024 by Diply Social Team