Imagine winning a life-changing amount of money at a casino, only to face a moral dilemma with your fiancée. That’s exactly what happened to this 31-year-old man who won big while on vacation with his fiancée. However, instead of celebrating, they found themselves in a heated debate over whether he should use the winnings to pay off her massive debt. Let’s dive into their story and see if he’s making the right decision.
The Engaged Couple

Fiancée’s Debt Struggles

Her Spending Habits ️

Working to Pay Off Debt

Vacation and Casino Jackpot ️

The Money Debate

Silent Treatment

Parents Get Involved

Mother’s Expectations ♀️

His Decision

Trust Issues

Desperate Search

Family’s Opinion ️

His Concerns

To Share or Not to Share?
This man found himself in a tricky situation after winning a large casino jackpot. His fiancée, who struggles with debt and poor spending habits, begged him to use the winnings to pay off her debt. However, he has concerns about her going right back into debt and doesn’t trust her with the money. Instead, he plans to use it for bills, mortgage, and his car loan. Her family believes he should share the money, but he stands firm in his decision. What do you think of this dilemma? Let’s see what the internet has to say…
Red flags in relationship: fiancée trashes room for money. NTA.

Fiancée trashed his room to steal money, NTA, run away.

Fiancée has maxed out credit cards, trashed room looking for money

NTA. Marriage is a partnership, not a debt trap.

Cut ties with financially unstable partner. NTA.

Don’t marry someone you don’t trust with money

“NTA” but bigger problems than casino winnings and fiancée’s debt.
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NTA commenter advises to run from fiancée who trashed room

Don’t rush into marriage if there are financial trust issues.

Red flag alert! NTA for refusing to pay fiancée’s debt

NTA. Keep finances separate if you marry. Prioritize marriage over frivolity.

Harsh advice for an engaged couple headed towards divorce

User sympathizes with OP and advises to reconsider engagement. NTA

Money talk before marriage is crucial, even if NTA

Red flag alert! OP needs to reassess their relationship. NTA.

NTA, but reconsider the relationship. Get a prenup.

NTA advises caution before marrying someone with debt

Debt and spending addiction? Think twice before tying knot.

User advises caution to man refusing to pay fiancée’s debt

Red flags everywhere.

Don’t let her drag you down with her debt NTA

Red flag alert! Trust issues in a relationship can be deal-breakers

Fiancée’s debt not husband’s responsibility. Postpone wedding until resolved.

Engaged to a financial burden? Maybe it’s time to reconsider

Man wins big at casino but refuses to pay fiancée’s debt . Commenters support his decision to not take responsibility.
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Financial red flags in relationship, consider Dave Ramsey intervention or leave ❌

NTA. Red flags in her behavior and financial responsibility

NTA refuses to pay fiancée’s debt, commenters support decision

Fiancée in debt, man refuses to pay. Is marriage doomed?

Money issues in relationships can lead to major conflicts

Redditor suggests breaking off engagement due to fiancée’s behavior

Engaging in a debate about finances in a relationship

Couple needs to be transparent about finances, reevaluate relationship. NTA.

NTA suggests financial counseling for fiancée with debt issues.

Fiancée trashed his room, he’s NTA for refusing to pay debt

NTA but financial planning is crucial for a successful marriage

Marrying someone with debt? NTA for refusing to pay.

Consider the red flags before marrying someone with poor finances

Marriage means joint finances. Red flag that her family disagrees.

NTA. Partner’s financial irresponsibility and entitlement is concerning

Fiancée trashed his room and tried to steal his money. NTA.
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OP refuses to pay fiancée’s debt, commenters warn of red flags

Financially responsible advice for fiancé’s cc debt

NTA thinks fiancée’s addiction is causing debt and entitlement

Money issues causing pre-marital conflict. Reconsider marriage plans.

Fiancée trashed OP’s room, tried to steal. NTA, marinara flag.
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NTA commenter advises re-thinking marriage due to financial disagreements.

Protect your finances and run! NTA

Think twice before marrying someone with debt and spending habits

Red flags in fiancée’s debt and family’s expectations. NTA.

Living together and splitting bills could be a safer option

NTA chose responsibility over selfishness, but relationship may need work.

Consider if she’s the one. Her debt will become yours. #NTA

NTA. Fiancée needs help with budgeting and debt. Discuss finances before marriage.

NTA, but marrying someone you don’t trust?

Questioning the trust in the relationship before marriage

User advises against marrying fiancée and suggests prenup.

Fiancée trashed room for money, reacted like an addict. NTA.

Pre-marital counseling advised for fiancée’s debt and spending habits.

Don’t marry someone in debt with a spending addiction.

Fiancée tried to steal from him, NTA for refusing to pay debt

NTA, but she needs therapy and financial counseling ASAP

Red flags raised after fiancée trashes room looking for money

Red flag alert! NTA and reconsider the relationship

NTA commenter advises against paying fiancée’s debt, suggests financial incompatibility.

Partner’s debt and behavior raises red flags, reconsider marriage

Partner’s shopping addiction? NTA for not paying debt.

NTA, but fiancée’s financial irresponsibility is a red flag

NTA refuses to pay fiancée’s debt, warns of wedding cancellation
