Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of love, lies, and… household chores? Meet our protagonist, a 25-year-old guy who’s been dating his GF Anne for 5 years. They took the plunge and moved in together, but little did he know, he was about to enter a world of gaslighting and accusations. As the chore wars escalated, our hero began to question his own sanity. But wait, there’s a twist! The security cameras hold the key to the truth. Will our protagonist be vindicated, or will he be labeled the ultimate villain? Let’s dive in and find out! ️♂️
Moving In Together: A New Chapter

Break-Ins Beware: Security Cams to the Rescue!

Chore Wars: The Accusations Begin

Chore N**i: Keeping Things Tidy

️ Brushing Off the Remarks: But They Keep Coming

Doubting My Own Recollection: Am I Really That Messy? ♂️

The Explosion: Anne’s Maid Meltdown

Security Cam Sleuthing: The Truth Revealed ️♂️

The Tally: Chores Split Equally

Insignificant Differences: Over 1.5 Years

Confronting Anne: “Remembering Things Differently”

Heartbreak: Anne Moves Out

Friends Taking Sides: Am I the Bad Guy?

♂️ Questioning Myself: Am I Off Base?

Edit: Clarifying the Chore Count

Chore Wars: Security Cams Reveal the Shocking Truth!
Well, well, well… looks like our protagonist’s world has been turned upside down! After enduring months of accusations and doubting his own cleanliness, he finally decided to investigate. ️♂️ Armed with 1.5 years of security cam footage, he tallied up the chores and discovered the shocking truth: they split the work equally! But instead of vindication, he’s now facing a breakup and being labeled as a creepy, abusive stalker by his friends. Talk about a plot twist! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this messy situation…
Caught on camera: NTA proves his worth, ditches lying GF

Breaking up by making excuses and blaming others is cowardly
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Counting chores isn’t abusive, girlfriend’s lies are exposed

Partner caught lying through home security footage, NTA behavior.

YTA called out for invasion of privacy and lack of communication.

NTA for catching girlfriend’s lies through home security footage

Is reviewing home security footage to prove a point creepy?

Sarcastic reply questions if couple is just fastidious, not gaslighting.

Break up with the gaslighter, you’re better off.

A comment on mental load and redefining chores.

YTA comment defends girlfriend’s privacy invasion concerns.

Keeping score doesn’t help build a life together.

Using home footage to catch lies may be necessary, but unhealthy relationship.

Using security footage to catch lies? YTA, and creepy too!

Girlfriend caught lying on camera, NTA dodges bullet

Relationship advice: Remember to split chores 75/25 for 50/50. ESH.

Using home security footage to catch partner’s lies: justified or not?

Caught her gaslighting NTA for using cameras

Relationship advice: It’s not about the dishes. ️
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ESH for not talking about chores and relying on footage

Setting the record straight with home security footage

Caught on camera: Girlfriend lies exposed

Gaslighting can make you question your sanity

Girlfriend planned breakup and made OP the bad guy. NTA!
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Partner’s bizarre behavior leads to YTA verdict.

Confronts girlfriend’s lies, accused of stalking, ends relationship. NTA

Gaslighting girlfriend caught on camera, NTA for seeking proof.

A gentle ESH, but a better approach could have helped

Couple’s cleaning dispute caught on camera, both acting ridiculous

Quarantine taking a toll on relationships

Controlling behavior or valid concern? ESH with a side of YTA

A commenter calls out both parties for poor communication. ♂️

Exploring the possible reasons for Anne’s behavior. ESH.

Did she want to end things?

Debate over home security cameras and chore distribution. ESH.

The commenter sympathizes with the poster’s situation and warns about their ex-girlfriend’s narcissistic behavior.

Harsh but honest advice, time to move on

Girlfriend gaslit and lied. OP called her out. NTA.
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Security cameras as objective source to verify can be helpful.

ESH. He caught her lying with security footage. Petty but understandable.

Going through year’s worth of footage to prove point was *nuts*
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NTA for not understanding girlfriend’s unclear communication about chores

YTA for obsessively tallying chores on security footage. Relationship over.

Relationships are team work, sometimes one partner does more – ESH

Caught on camera: Girlfriend’s lies exposed, NTA for using footage

Communication is key in a healthy relationship

Are household chores causing relationship issues?

Consider frequency of chores before catching partner on camera

Dating nightmares: tallying up chores from security footage?

OP may have dodged a bullet with NTA verdict

Curious Redditor seeks more context on girlfriend’s wild behavior.

Empathetic commenter acknowledges the difficult reality of breakups.

Heartfelt sympathy for a man whose girlfriend used a petty excuse

Early signs of wanting to break up, NTA for catching lies

Reassurance from security footage can’t fix a doomed relationship.
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Positive reinforcement for a broken relationship

Red flag raised as privacy violation used to deflect guilt

Possible infidelity and lies in the relationship

Caught on camera: NTA exposes gaslighting girlfriend’s lies

Partner’s nit-picking was a sign of bigger issues. NTA.

Dodged a bullet! NTA. Block her on all platforms

Partner accuses unfairly, gets mad when proven wrong

Trust your gut: NTA should run from girlfriend’s projecting behavior

NTA. Red flags raised, time to divide chores and finances.

Gaslighting uncovered: NTA dodged a bullet.

NTA catches lying girlfriend, she plays victim. ♂️

Caught her lying with security footage, NTA wins!

NTA dodged a bullet and Anne might come crawling back

Using home security footage to catch lies- NTA wins

Manipulative girlfriend plays victim in every situation ❌

Letting her go seems like the best move.

Moving on after a disrespectful ex

ESH/NAH limbo due to communication issues over chores. Healthy conversation needed.

Last Updated on March 20, 2024 by Diply Social Team