Imagine being invited to a wedding, promising an extravagant gift, and then finding out you’ve been uninvited! That’s exactly what happened to one man, who we’ll call ‘The Gifted Groomsmen’. He was all set to attend the wedding of an acquaintance, ‘Molly’, and had promised a custom-made gaming PC as a gift. But when he was uninvited due to ‘cost-cutting measures’, he decided to keep the gift. Was he right, or just being petty? Let’s dive into this wedding drama.
The Invitation and the Promise
The Uninvitation
The Unpleasant Revelation
The Gift That Never Was ❌
The Heated Argument
The Aftermath: Friends Take Sides
The Self-Doubt
The Final Question ♂️
The Unexpected Attention
The Clarification
The Deception and Disappointment
The Gift Details
The Future of Gift-Giving
Gifted Groomsmen’s Wedding Woes: A Tale of Broken Promises and Uninvited Guests
So, what do you do when you’re uninvited from a wedding but you’ve already promised a lavish gift? ‘The Gifted Groomsmen’ found himself in this exact predicament. After being unceremoniously uninvited due to ‘cost-cutting measures’, he decided to keep his promised gaming PC. This decision sparked a heated argument, with the bride accusing him of being petty. Friends were divided, with some siding with him, while others suggested that wedding planning can lead to tough decisions. Now, he’s left questioning his actions. Was he justified, or just being petty? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA. Molly sounds entitled. Uninvited = no gift
Uninvited guest withholds gift: NTA, who expects that?
NTA: Uninvited from wedding, withheld gift. Entitlement needs reality check.
NTA…uninviting someone over a gift? That’s insane!
NTA. No invite, no gift. Simple as that.
Uninvited from wedding, but expected $1500 gift? NTA for withholding.
Uninvited from wedding, but expected expensive gift? Send a pickle fork set. NTA.
NTA. Molly has some nerve to ask for a gift
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Uninvited guest refuses expensive gift: justified or just petty?
NTA. Uninvited from wedding, withheld promised gift. Petty or justified?
Skipping the wedding, skipping the gift. Fair or foul?
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NTA: No obligation to give gift for uninvited wedding. Tacky!
Saving money and being NTA, a win-win situation!
Uninvited from wedding, OP refuses gift: Justified and not petty
Wedding guest uninvited, keeps gift: NTA, no obligation to give
Uninvited from wedding, withholding gift: NTA, tacky and unimaginable!
Molly uninvited OP but still expects an expensive gift? Entitled much?
No invite, no gift. She’s playing you because you’re nice.
Revoked invitation, lied, and still wants gift? NTA for sure!
Uninvited from wedding, commenter defends withholding promised gift.
NTA calls out entitled, greedy bride for disinviting and demanding gift.
NTA: Bride uninvites guest, but still expects expensive gift?
No invite, no gift
Friendship fallout: Withheld gift sparks debate. NTA or ESH?
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No invite, no gift
NTA: Gaming PC revenge with a framed picture
No gift required for uninvited guests. NTA, period.
Clever excuse to save money on wedding gift. NTA
Wedding gift drama: NTA! Friend’s tacky behavior is uncalled for.
NTA: Expensive gift for an entitled brat. Don’t be used.
Uninvited guest refuses gift: Entitlement or justified?
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Uninvited guest holds back gift: justified or petty?
Texting for gift after uninviting from wedding? NTA for sure!
Cutting toxic friends? NTA!
No obligation to give a gift at a wedding.
Is offering a $1500 gift weird or just generous?
NTA: Justified or Petty?
RSVPs are meant to be final. NTA for uninviting.
No invite, no gift. NTA stands firm, sparks debate. ♂️
NTA Molly’s entitlement backfires: no gift, no friendship, saved $1500
Uninvited guest refuses gift: justified or just plain petty?
NTA. No obligation to give gift, uninviting means no expectations.
NTA: Spill the tea or be labeled petty! ☕
Generous gift or excessive spending?
