Imagine trying your best to win the affection of your mother-in-law, only for your spouse to tell you she’ll never love you and to stop trying. That’s the heartbreaking situation one woman found herself in after her husband bluntly told her the cold truth about his mother. The couple has been married for two years, and the wife has been doing everything she can to connect with her disinterested mother-in-law. But after a recent get-together, the husband finally had enough and told her to give up on her quest for love.
The Cold Mother-in-Law ❄️

A Hard Life and Disinterest

The Retired Old Lady

The Get-Together at Mom’s House

Wife Brings Potato Salad

Mom Asks for Quiet

The Car Talk

The Harsh Truth

Mom’s Porch Etiquette

The Observer

Polite Attempts to Quiet Wife

A Heartbreaking Quest for Love Denied
After numerous attempts to win her mother-in-law’s affection, this wife was left heartbroken when her husband told her the harsh truth: his mom would never love her. Despite her best efforts, the wife’s actions only seemed to push the disinterested mother-in-law further away. The husband, tired of seeing his wife’s futile attempts, finally told her to stop trying. This revelation left the wife devastated and questioning her place in the family. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional rollercoaster…
Retired MIL wants peace, wife wants validation. NTA but boundaries needed

Harsh truth: MIL will never warm up to wife, period.

NTA: Leave cranky old people alone and accept them as they are

Soft YTA. Mother-in-law’s love is shown through cooking and hosting.

“YTA, your mom too.” A tense family dynamic causing unwelcome feelings. ♀️

ESH. MIL is rude, wife can’t force a relationship, possible depression.

Mother wants peace, wife needs to respect her boundaries.

NTA. Wife needs to treat mother-in-law better. Tact wasn’t working.

NTA. Wife can’t force a relationship. Mom wants peace

ESH. Everyone is dreadful and needs a reminder to be decent

NTA – Wife seeks attention, mom wants peace. Clash of personalities. ♂️

Spouse advises compassion, acknowledges mother’s isolation for better relationship

INFO: Why does your mom ask people to come over and be quiet?

Mom vs Wife: A Clash of Desires. Can They Coexist?

Is it fair for the wife to stop seeing the mother-in-law?

ESH but mostly you. Your wife deserves better.

Sometimes, not trying too hard can lead to better relationships

NTA. Mom seems apathetic. Will she treat your kids the same?

NTA. Attachment styles and love languages causing all the issues
