We’ve all had that one friend who’s a bit unconventional, but what if their quirks started causing trouble in your love life? Meet Alva, a free-spirited woman who believes in going t*****s whenever men do, and her childhood friend who’s now caught in the crossfire between her and his girlfriend, Julia.
Childhood Friends Forever
The Hippie Lifestyle
When It All Began ☀️
The Shirtless Summer ️
A New Girlfriend Enters the Scene
Phone Calls and Friendships
Music Festival Memories
The Argument Begins
Explaining Alva’s Beliefs ️
Julia’s Shocking Reaction
Accusations Fly
The Ultimatum
Pride Parade Memories ️
Questioning Compatibility
The Next Step
Will Love Prevail or Will Friendship Win?
Caught between his ‘Free the N*****s’ childhood friend Alva and his girlfriend Julia, our protagonist faces a tough decision. After a heated argument and an ultimatum from Julia, he’s left questioning their compatibility and whether their relationship can withstand their differing beliefs. As he waits for Julia’s response, he wonders if they’re just too different to make it work.
NTA defends ‘Free the N*****s’ friend, girlfriend’s reaction is unacceptable
Embrace your inner Alma and let those n*****s breathe
NTA for supporting ‘Free the N*****s’ friend, GF insecure
Defending a friend’s cause strains relationship, but girlfriend’s insecurity shows.
Support for ‘Free the N*****s’ friend, criticism for controlling girlfriend.
Supportive commenters suggest reaching out to educate girlfriend on feminism.
Girlfriend’s discomfort is valid, but giving an ultimatum is AH move
Commenter defends ‘Free the N*****s’ movement, girlfriend disapproves ♀️
Support for gender equality and body positivity
NAH. Girlfriend has a reasonable boundary, but insults are unnecessary.
Friend’s loyalty questioned, girlfriend’s jealousy criticized. NTA.
NTA defends friend’s ‘Free the N*****s’ movement, girlfriend overreacts
Asexual friend supports ‘Free the N*****s’, girlfriend overreacts
Setting boundaries with partner’s t*****s friend, girlfriend uncomfortable
ESH for not communicating boundaries earlier, but girlfriend’s accusations were unfair
Navigating jealousy and differing cultural norms in relationships
NTA, but communication could have been better
Navigating cultural differences in relationships can be tough
Support for ‘Free the N****e’ movement but girlfriend’s discomfort understandable
Comment calls out girlfriend’s insecurity
Engaging debate on cultural differences and societal norms around n****y.
NAH for supporting ‘Free the N*****s’, but girlfriend is insecure ♂️
Childhood story of breaking gender norms, but ESH in current situation
Navigating boundaries with friends and partners can be tricky
Asexual commenter defends friend, calls out girlfriend’s ignorance
Religiously raised commenter accepts ‘free the n****e’ movement, defends friend. NTA
Commenter supports ‘Free the N*****s’ friend and calls out girlfriend’s insecurities.
Supportive friend Alva earns NTA, girlfriend not happy
Asexuality is valid, girlfriend needs to educate herself
Alva is a badass and the girlfriend is insecure
Validating asexuality: NTA comment shuts down ignorance
Toxic relationship alert! Is it time to cut bait?
Legalities of toplessness discussed, with international input
Defending a friend’s ‘Free the N*****s’ movement, risking girlfriend’s anger
Chosen family over girlfriend drama? NTA wins the day
Defending a friend’s sexuality, facing girlfriend’s anger. NTA wins.
Navigating opposite gender n****y in friendships can be tricky
Support for ‘Free the N*****s’ friend, girlfriend not happy
Supporting ‘Free the N*****s’ friend makes you NTA
Support for ‘Free the N*****s’ friend, backlash against girlfriend
Supportive comment defends friend against controlling girlfriend
Supportive comment defends asexual friend, girlfriend’s insecurity exposed
Supportive comment receives no backlash, encourages self-love ❤
Supporting ‘Free the N*****s’ friend causes tension in relationship
Supportive comment on ‘Free the N*****s’ movement and navigating jealousy.
Support for ‘Free the N*****s’ friend causes rift with girlfriend ♂️
Defending a t*****s lifelong friend causes girlfriend’s insecurities to surface ♂️
Choose friends wisely, not girlfriends.
Support for ‘Free the N*****s’ movement sparks debate
Stand up for your friends, but don’t forget to communicate
Support for ‘Free the N*****s’ movement, girlfriend’s jealousy addressed.
Supportive friend stands up against controlling girlfriend
ESH, but OP should communicate with both girlfriend and friend
Commenter shames ‘Free the N*****s’ movement, calls OP an a**hole
Last Updated on May 4, 2023 by Diply Social Team