Meet our curious Casanova, a 29-year-old man living in a college town. He frequents a local bar, where he often crosses paths with a certain mid-20s grad student. She’s attractive, she’s intelligent, and she’s the object of his interest. But when his attempts at friendly conversation fall flat, he takes a different approach – one that leads to some unexpected drama.
The Setting: A Local Bar

The Girl: A Former Hostess Turned Grad Student

The Attempts at Conversation

The Sneak Peek

The Curiosity Gets the Better of Him

The Unveiling

The Reaction

The Aftermath

The Self-Doubt

Curious Casanova or Creepy Intruder? ️♂️
In a bid to spark a conversation, our curious Casanova takes a sneak peek at a girl’s notes while she’s away. His efforts backfire when she returns and he tries to engage her on the topic she was writing about. The girl, feeling invaded, moves away, leaving our Casanova questioning his actions. The bartender’s warning adds to his self-doubt. Was he just trying to be friendly or did he cross a line? Let’s dive into the internet’s top responses to this intriguing situation.
YTA: Take the hint and back off. It’s creepy.

YTA snoops in girl’s notes, revealed as creepy stalker

YTA. Dude, she clearly wants you to leave her alone

Ewwww YTA YTA YTA. Potentially seek help. Leave people alone if they have made it clear they aren’t interested. WHY don’t some people get this yet?!

OP’s creepy behavior is scaring her away. Take the hint!

YTA. Creepy stalker gets called out for unwanted advances.

YTA for invading privacy and ignoring boundaries. Creepy behavior!

“YTA and creepy. Lack of awareness is super disturbing. Leave her alone!”

YTA for invading her privacy and ignoring her boundaries.

“YTA She very obviously didn’t want to talk with you.
You ignored that. So SHE HAD TO MOVE AWAY FROM YOU.
Someone had to literally pack up their things and move away from you.
Take the hint. ” – Commenter
Respect boundaries and move on.

YTA for invading her privacy and not taking the hint

“YTA. Stepped over the line. Leave the girl alone! “
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“Insanely creepy. Women deserve spaces without men trying to talk.”

“YTA. Looking at a stranger’s private stuff? That’s creepy! “

Creepy guy ignores boundaries and gets called out by comment.

YTA. Respect boundaries and move on.

Invasion of privacy: YTA sneaks a peek at girl’s notes

Boundary-violating “nice guy” gets called out. YTA YTA YTA

YTA. Creeping on her notes won’t make her like you

Snooping in her notes? YTA crossed the line!

YTA crosses the line, girl’s privacy invaded. No means no.

YTA – Respect boundaries! Don’t be a creep

YTA. Violating personal space is creepy and disrespectful. Leave her alone.
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YTA – Ignoring boundaries: creepy, not curious
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“YTA. Invasion of privacy is seriously unacceptable behavior. Seek help.”

YTA: Invading personal space and boundaries is never okay.

Invading privacy: YTA for sneaking a peek at her notes

“YTA! She is NOT uptight. You sound like a stalker. “

Creep alert! Dude snoops on girl’s notes, gets rightfully called out!

YTA for snooping: *You* Joe Goldberg vibes. Not cool, dude.

Sneaking a peek at someone’s notes? YTA, that’s creepy

Creepy guy invades girl’s privacy, bartender comes to the rescue!
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YTA: Respect her boundaries and move on

Creepy guy caught snooping on girl’s notes
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“YTA. Learn social cues. Just cause you want to talk doesn’t mean they have to.”

Creepy guy snoops through girl’s personal notes: YTA

Dude, respect personal boundaries! ♂️ YTA
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YTA: Ignoring signals and stalking, definitely creepy!
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“YTA. Leave her alone.” – A clear message from the girl

Entitled behavior sparks concern. Therapy recommended for self-reflection.

Creepy guy ignores rejection, crosses boundaries.

YTA and a stalker

YTA. Lack of respect and creepy behavior.

Creepy guy snoops on girl’s notes, gets called out.

YTA dude won’t take a hint, snoops on girl’s notes

YTA creep. Invasion of privacy and stalking. No excuses.

YTA for creeping on a girl’s notes. Bartender should’ve kicked you out.

YTA. Creepy and clueless. Take the hint, dude!

Respect boundaries! Don’t be a creep!

YTA. Respect her boundaries and stop invading her privacy.

YTA, that’s creepy

“The ‘girl was being uptight’ defense? YTA. Very creepy!”

“YTA. Creepy behavior won’t get you anywhere with her. “

Reading her notes? Creepy AF! YTA, no doubt about it

Invasion of privacy? YTA learns a hard lesson. ♂️
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YTA and a creepy stalker. Respect her boundaries!

“YTA That you think the problem could be that the woman was ‘just being uptight’ is genuinely concerning. Infact everything about what you did is creepy, over the line and you sound like you’re not that far away from being dangerous. You need to dial this shit back and maybe get help, again, the fact that you don’t see that what you did was wrong is of genuine concern.”

YTA. Can’t take a hint? Creepy or just clueless?
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Creepy guy invades girl’s space, thinks he’s entitled to her.

Curiosity or Creepiness? The Persistence of Unwanted Advances

Creepy dude gets called out for invading personal boundaries.

Creepy guy snoops on girl’s notes, gets called out. YTA.

YTA: Creepy or just curious? Take a hint

YTA: Creepy comment, unsafe vibes. Take a hint

YTA and a creep. Leave her alone

YTA: Ignoring signals, violating privacy. Stop being creepy.

YTA. Respect her space and let her focus on her work.
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YTA, creepy and clueless. Respect boundaries and leave her alone.
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YTA. Creepy behavior. Take the hint and move on!

Creepy guy gets called out for invading personal space.
