Imagine receiving an expensive gift from your significant other, only to realize it’s something you never wanted. That’s exactly what happened to this 26-year-old man, who was gifted private driving lessons by his girlfriend for his birthday. He had already expressed his disinterest in learning to drive, but she still went ahead with the gift. The situation escalated quickly, with both parties feeling hurt and misunderstood. Let’s dive into the details of this dramatic gift-giving gone wrong.
The Girlfriend’s Gift

No Interest in Driving

The Expensive Birthday Gift

Feeling Offended

An Impersonal Gift?

The Argument Begins

Returning the Gift

Sticking to His Guns

The Girlfriend’s Retaliation

A Pointless License?

The Girlfriend’s Frustration

A Birthday Gift Swap

The Double Standard

Still the AH?

A Gift That Divides: Who’s Right in This Situation?
This birthday gift drama has left both parties feeling hurt and misunderstood. The boyfriend feels that his girlfriend’s gift of driving lessons was impersonal and an attempt to change him, while the girlfriend argues that she’s tired of always being the driver and wants him to share the responsibility. As the situation escalates, the boyfriend suggests they swap birthday gifts, which only upsets her more. With both sides refusing to budge, it’s hard to tell who’s right in this emotionally charged standoff. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Comment section overwhelmingly agrees that OP is the a-hole

Learning to drive is an important skill, don’t be TA
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Debate over whether OP is immature for not wanting to learn to drive

Man’s rejection of girlfriend’s gift sparks heated YTA debate

ESH, but OP’s GF’s gift is a warning to get a license or get resented

Man refuses to drive, girlfriend tired of being his driver

Commenter argues driving is valuable skill, sparks heated discussion

OP is TA for not pulling his weight in the relationship

The cost of love? A question sparks curiosity

Debate over rejected gift of driving lessons turns into relationship issue

Commenter calls out OP for not contributing financially and taking girlfriend for granted, with a sassy reply.

Commenter calls out OP for not wanting to learn driving

Debate over daily cost of Uber rides to work

Learning to drive is important for emergencies and future options. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for being a burden on girlfriend
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Engaging debate on relationship dynamics and communication skills
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Man refuses to learn to drive, expects girlfriend to chauffeur. YTA

Partner’s refusal to drive is a burden, YTA according to commenters

NTA for rejecting unwanted driving lessons as a birthday gift

Man refuses gift, criticized for not driving.

GF was wrong to get unwanted gift, but ESH for not driving.

User calls out boyfriend for not having a license

Commenter defends girlfriend’s gift, shares personal experience with driving

Commenter calls out OP for expecting girlfriend to drive.

Driving debate sparks ESH judgment and practical concerns

Debate over whether not wanting to drive makes you a burden

Defending personal choice to not drive sparks intense debate

Commenter calls out OP for being a burden on girlfriend

Commenter calls out OP for not learning to drive

NTA for rejecting gift due to girlfriend’s lack of consideration

Gift-giving should be about the recipient, not the giver.

Girlfriend upset over driving, but NTA for rejecting gift

Debate over practicality of expensive gift sparks Uber vs car

Rejecting expensive gift: NTA or rude passive-aggressive gesture?

NTA for rejecting girlfriend’s gift, she bought it for herself

Commenter calls out lazy behavior, warns of relationship consequences

Man’s laziness sparks intense debate and YTA verdict

Adapting to life without a car: inspiring or impractical?

Learn to drive or rely on Uber? ESH in gift-giving

Commenter calls out hypocrisy in rejecting gift. YTA
