Man refuses to write “application essay” to attend sister’s wedding

A man shared his dilemma on whether or not he should write a 500-word essay just to attend his sister’s destination wedding next February. His sister has made it a requirement for guests to submit two 250-word “essays” to two questions in order to figure out who to invite and who to cut. The questions are broad and not even pandemic-related, leading the man to feel insulted by the requirement. He refused to write the essays, leading to tension between him, his sister, and his parents. Now he wonders if he is the a**hole for staying stubborn on this issue. Read on to find out more about this wedding drama and weigh in on whether or not he should just write the essays.

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A man is feeling insulted by his sister’s request to write an “application essay” in order to attend her wedding due to the pandemic. The man is expected to write two 250-word essays on broad topics such as why he still wants to celebrate the day with them and what attending the wedding means to him specifically. He feels that his sister is blatantly looking for people to kiss her a** and tell her why they REALLY want to go. The man has refused to write the essays and this has rubbed his sister and parents the wrong way. The sister has framed the essays as “surveys” but there’s a word limit requirement, so if you don’t reach it on the Google forms, you can’t even submit it. The parents think this is perfectly reasonable, nice even, because the sister is letting everyone have the chance to attend. Do you think the man is being unreasonable? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

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