A man’s refusal to mourn his mother’s passing has set off a family feud of epic proportions. His mother, described by him as a ‘monster’, was a nightmare to him, but a doting parent to his siblings. Now, with her passing, the family is divided over her memory and the man’s refusal to partake in the funeral preparations. Let’s dive into this emotionally charged family drama.
The Monster Mom’s Demise ♀️
A Childhood of Torment
Escape and Estrangement ♂️
A Mother’s Death, A Son’s Relief
Funeral Feud Begins ⚔️
Obituary Outrage
Siblings’ Stance
The Feud Continues… ️
Unwanted Involvement
A Mother’s Death, A Family’s Fracture
In the face of his mother’s death, one man finds relief rather than sorrow, sparking a family feud that threatens to tear his siblings apart. His mother, a ‘monster’ in his eyes, was a loving parent to his siblings but a tormentor to him. His refusal to partake in the funeral preparations and his demand to be left out of the obituary have incensed his siblings. As the family feud escalates, the funeral planning is delayed, and the siblings find themselves in a bitter battle of words and emotions. Let’s see how the internet reacts to this tumultuous family drama…
NTA: Stand firm against siblings pressuring you to mourn abusive mother
NTA, family pressuring OP to split funeral costs, only care about money
NTA: Celebrate the holidays with your loving family and ignore them! ️
NTA. Refusing to mourn ‘monster mom’ sparks family feud ️
NTA. Family feud erupts over ‘monster mom’ mourning ️
NTA: Stand your ground, they should be used to exclusion.
NTA for your stance. Being calm and firm is reasonable.
NTA. Savage obituaries: a cathartic way to expose abusive parents.
Celebrating the demise of a monster mom
NTA, OP. Taking the high road while family feuds
Stand your ground! Your wishes deserve respect.
Siblings unaware of mother’s abuse, expect LW to pay funeral
Take a stand! Set boundaries and protect your finances
Cutting ties with toxic family: No more drama or money.
NTA. Block em if it helps. They only want you there to help with expenses. Where were they when that woman was treating you in that vile manner? I’m sorry you had that childhood and it’s not your fault.
Sibling grief complicates your perspective on ‘monster mom’ situation.
Block toxic family, celebrate freedom from abuse. Cheers to healing!
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Engaging comment: Trash the funeral or chicken out?
Stand up for yourself and set boundaries. ️
NTA. Family stood by while mom mistreated you. They’re hypocrites.
Standing up for yourself and refusing to be fake!
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“You grieve for the mother you never had.”
NTA: Refusing to mourn ‘monster mom’, suggests champagne and fireworks ️
Siblings complicit in abuse, now want OP’s involvement? NTA
Sibling rivalry and dark humor in dysfunctional family dynamics.
Engaging suggestion to assert your perspective in a family feud
NTA: Siblings don’t get how bad mom was to you. ♂️
NTA, but consider your siblings’ safety and your own healing
Family feud erupts over mourning ‘monster mom’ ️
Family feud: siblings enable abusive mother, now manipulate you. NTA
Stand up for yourself! Don’t let your siblings bully you.
Family feud over attending abusive mom’s funeral. NTA vs. siblings
NTA You’re not taking it out on them. You just want nothing to do with her in death as in life. I’m so sorry your mother treated you this way and I hope this brings you closure.
Defending choice not to mourn ‘monster mom’
No love lost: NTA refuses to mourn ‘monster mom’
NTA: Embrace your freedom and live a great life!
Sibling pressure to forgive ‘monster mom’ for their own benefit
NTA: No obligation to participate in funeral proceedings.
Fiery comment sparks intense family feud over ‘monster mom’
Siblings clash over expenses after mom’s passing. NTA, right?
Bold move: Threatening to expose ‘horrid’ mom at her funeral.
Standing up to abuse: NTA, you owe them nothing
Sibling drama: NTA refuses to help ‘monster mom’.
Embrace your power, block negativity, and cherish your loved ones
Fiery response to honoring a ‘monster mom’ in obituary
NTA: Funeral is to commemorate the person, not pretend for others.
NTA: Suggest throwing a party instead of a funeral
NTA. Siblings refuse to pay, mom wants ashes spread secretly.
NTA: Petty revenge on a ‘monster mom’ at her funeral.
Block toxic family members and move on. NTA!
Family feud ignited by unsympathetic relatives. NTA, consider going NC
NTA. Powerful story of breaking free from an abusive ‘monster mom’
Setting boundaries with toxic relationships. Stand your ground!
NTA. Overcoming a toxic relationship and standing up for your family
NTA: Stop engaging with family about her funeral arrangements
Not the a**hole for not loving your ‘monster mom’. ♂️
NTA: Financial issues and bad treatment, live your life peacefully
Sibling feud: Optics vs. mistreatment. No right to ask.
Relieved by father’s death, conflicted about others’ mourning.
NTA: Standing up against family pressure after abusive upbringing
Surviving children refuse to mourn ‘monster mom’ – NTA
Cutting ties with toxic family: NTA, no guilt trip
Engaging comment: Stand your ground! You’re definitely NTA in this mess.
Last Updated on December 16, 2023 by Diply Social Team
