Picture this: you’re invited to a friend’s BBQ, but instead of being a simple guest, you’re expected to provide all the food. That’s the situation one man found himself in, not once, but three times! After the first two instances, he decided enough was enough and put his foot down. But did he go too far? Let’s dive into this juicy BBQ drama and find out.
The BBQ Invitation

The First Two Times

Surprise! You’re the Caterer

Round Two: Still Disappointed

Enough is Enough! ♂️

The Awkward Shop Run

Expensive Taste, But Who’s Paying?

Standing His Ground

Fiancée’s Thoughts

The Final Verdict

BBQ Drama: Was He Right to Refuse? ♂️
After being invited to a friend’s BBQ for the third time and expected to provide all the food, this man finally decided to put his foot down. He refused to bring any food and even declined to pay for the expensive groceries his friend picked out at the store. His fiancée thinks he’s right but could’ve handled it differently. So, was he justified in standing up for himself, or should he have played along to keep the peace? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this BBQ showdown…
“BBQ without food? Unheard of! Guests should bring sides and drinks.”

NTA: Bringing the main course to a BBQ is bizarre

NTA: Friends expected too much, host should provide food.

“NTA: Decline future invites. Crazy talk.”

ESH: Fool you once, shame on them. Fool you twice…

Curious about wealth, commenter stands up for OP’s financial autonomy
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BBQ traditions debated: Kansas City vs Memphis, who’s right?

NTA. What the f**k?

NTA, but dude, 3 times? What did you expect to change?

NTA: Host should provide food or be called out
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“Why not just have a conversation about it? ️”

Guests should bring sides, not the entire BBQ spread. NTA.

“NTA. Free training lesson for arseholes. “

NTA: Setting boundaries and standing up for oneself

“NTA! Who expects guests to bring all the food? “

NTA: Speak up! They should provide food, not outsource it

NTA. BBQ no-shows: justified or rude?

NTA: The Empire of Mooch strikes again!

Fiancée’s sneaky move leaves man questioning BBQ responsibilities

Insanely NTA: Come to my BBQ and get treated right!
