Man Refuses to Be Called ‘Dad’ by Ex’s Daughter, Sparks Heated Debate

Meet a man who’s found himself in the middle of a family drama that has the internet buzzing. He shares custody of his two sons, Diego and Sasha, with his ex, Josie. After their split, Josie had a daughter named Eva with another man, who never really stepped up as a father. Our protagonist has occasionally helped out with Eva, but now he’s facing a dilemma: Eva wants to call him ‘dad’, but he’s not comfortable with the idea. Let’s dive into the story and see what unfolds.

The Split and the New Addition

Eva’s Absent Father

A Friendly Co-Parenting Relationship

School Pickups and Shared Meals

An Unexpected Request

A Sudden Mixup?

Drawing the Line

Eva’s Reaction

Josie’s Argument

A Fear of Future Expectations

Clarifying the Conversation

No Nicknames, Please

A Father Figure, But Not for Everyone

In a story that has the internet divided, this man is caught in a family dilemma. He’s a loving father to his two sons, but when his ex’s daughter Eva asked to call him ‘dad’, he refused. He’s not comfortable with the responsibility and fears future expectations. Eva was left sad, and Josie, his ex, thinks he’s being a jerk. Is he right to draw the line, or should he embrace the role for Eva’s sake? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this tricky situation…

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, not responsible for absent father. NTA

Setting boundaries to avoid more hurt, not his place to fix.

Setting boundaries with ex’s child. Empathy for child’s situation.

Being honest with the kid is important. Longer talk suggested.

Offering ‘uncle’ as an alternative was a good idea.

NTA suggests alternative petname for ex’s daughter, sparks agreement.

Setting boundaries early on to avoid financial responsibility. NTA

Man refuses to be called ‘Dad’ by ex’s daughter, sparks debate

Man refuses to be called ‘Dad’ by ex’s daughter, but still supportive.

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, sparks debate on responsibility.

Choosing not to be called ‘dad’ sparks debate, but NTA.

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter sparks debate, NTA wins.

Man sets boundaries with ex’s daughter, but still cares. NTA

Empathetic commenter sympathizes with Eva’s situation, but supports OP’s decision.

Setting boundaries with ex’s child sparks debate over parenting roles.

Not her dad, not the a**hole. Valid feelings

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, but communication is key.

Stepping up as a father figure, but refusing ‘Dad’ title

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, but still trying to be friendly

A thoughtful compromise suggested to address the issue.

Setting boundaries as a father figure. Suggests creating nickname.

NTA. Draw firm boundaries now and have a serious discussion.

Child’s innocent confusion leads to debate on step-parenting boundaries

User defends man’s decision not to be called ‘dad’ by ex’s daughter

Choosing not to be called ‘dad’ doesn’t make you an a**hole.

Co-parenting advice: Find what works for you and be kind

Choosing not to be called ‘dad’ sparks debate and empathy.

Compassionate response to a difficult situation for all involved

Debate over calling ex’s daughter ‘dad’ sparks child support concerns

NTA but beware of potential legal consequences

Choosing not to be called ‘dad’ by ex’s daughter. NTA.

Finding a new title for step-parents can help build connection ‍

Choosing not to be called ‘Dad’ by ex’s daughter. NTA.

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, but ex needs to clarify relationship.

Respect personal boundaries, age and relation don’t matter

Ex’s daughter wants to call him ‘Dad’, he refuses. NTA.

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, not obligated to be father figure.

User advises documenting boundaries with ex’s daughter to avoid future issues.

Draw the line: Refusing to be called ‘Dad’ sparks debate.

OP praised for handling sensitive situation with ex’s daughter, sets boundaries. NTA

Choosing not to be called ‘dad’ to avoid confusion. NTA.

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter sparks debate on parental roles

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter calling you ‘dad’. NTA

Setting boundaries with ex’s child, not responsible for her emotional labor.

Supportive comment suggests child support and college fund for Eva

Man refuses to be called ‘Dad’ by ex’s daughter. NTA.

Ex’s daughter calls man ‘dad’, he refuses. NTA, but suspicious.

Uncle’s story shows NTA for not treating ex’s daughter as family

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, NTA. Protects her and yourself.

Choosing not to be called ‘dad’ can create family tension ‍♂️

Ex’s daughter calling him ‘Dad’? NTA for refusing.

Avoiding legal trouble by refusing to be called ‘dad’

Ex’s daughter not his responsibility, sparks debate

Heartbreaking experience of a similar situation. NTA.

Choosing to go by name instead of ‘dad’ sparks discussion.

NTA. The commenter suggests setting boundaries while being kind.

Mother’s favoritism towards youngest child sparks NTA comment.

Ex’s daughter causing confusion, NTA for setting boundaries

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, avoiding ‘dad’ responsibilities.

Setting boundaries with empathy is key.

Man declines to be called ‘Dad’ by ex’s daughter. NTA.

Not all kids need to call their mom’s ex ‘dad’

Man sets boundaries with ex’s daughter, deemed NTA

A heartfelt story of a girl seeking a father figure

Setting boundaries without being an a** to a child

Setting boundaries with ex’s child, NTA, but still tough

Debate over child support in refusing to be called ‘Dad’

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, NTA sparks debate

Man refuses to be called ‘Dad’ by ex’s daughter, offers compromise

Being a friend and dad, not the a**hole in situation

Ex’s audacity to ask for more shows why she’s an ex. NTA

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter without leading her on.

Suggesting a harmless nickname for ex’s daughter to avoid complications

Man refuses to be called ‘dad’ by ex’s daughter, sparks debate

Being inclusive but not wanting to be called ‘dad’ is fair

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter sparks debate. NTA.

Setting boundaries with ex’s daughter, NTA, empathy for situation.

NTA. Suggests speaking plainly to the child about the situation

Man refuses to be called ‘Dad’ by ex’s daughter. NTA.