Thanksgiving is a time for family, gratitude, and delicious food. But what happens when family dynamics get a little too complicated? One man found himself in a sticky situation when his elderly parents invited both his new wife and his ex-wife to the annual Thanksgiving dinner. With his new wife feeling uncomfortable, he’s left wondering if he’s in the wrong for wanting his ex to make other plans. Let’s dive into this family drama and see what unfolds!
The Annual Thanksgiving Gathering

Unexpected Guest: The Ex-Wife

The Wife’s Sacrifice

Family’s Response: Suck It Up!

The Question: Who Shouldn’t Attend?

Divorce History in the Family

Just His Ex-Wife…

No Affair, Just Loveless

Reconnecting and Remarrying ❤️

Family’s Worry for the Ex?

Is He Wrong for Wanting His Ex to Make Other Plans?
Caught in a Thanksgiving dilemma, our protagonist is torn between his new wife’s feelings and his family’s expectations. His ex-wife’s invitation to the annual dinner has left his new wife feeling out of place, and he’s questioning if he’s wrong for wanting his ex to make other plans. With a history of divorce in the family, he wonders if his family’s concern for his ex-wife being alone is the real issue. As the holiday approaches, the question remains: who should attend the dinner, and who should make other plans? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Divorce circumstances questioned, commenter concludes NTA, family TA

Ex at Thanksgiving? NTA. Parents ruined it. Awkward for all ♂️

Divorced and remarried in a year, YTA for excluding ex-wife.

Curious about ex-wife’s past attendance at Thanksgiving dinner

Curious commenter questions man’s quick remarriage after divorce.

Ex-wife is the mother of your children and family, YTA.
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Navigating family dynamics during the holidays can be tough ♀️

Unanswered questions leave room for judgment and speculation

Curious commenter wants more info on the situation
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New wife supportive, kids want you there. YTA, be mature

Uncertainty around family dynamics makes it hard to judge.

Newly-wed man refusing to attend Thanksgiving with ex-wife, YTA

User calls out OP for not being cordial with ex-wife.

Co-parenting with ex? New partner is family now. YTA.

Redditors call out commenter for being TA in Thanksgiving drama

Ex-wife’s presence might be important for kids, YTA if you skip.

Navigating Thanksgiving custody battles with exes and new spouses

Navigating Thanksgiving with Ex and New Wife – Advice and Tips

Curiosity arises over missing details in complex family situation

Cheating ex-husband chooses new wife over kids. YTA indeed

Navigating step-parenting during the holidays

User accuses man of cheating and calls him out for prioritizing new wife over mother of his child.

Prioritize your kids, YTA. Your new partner should understand ♀️

Navigating exes at family gatherings can be tough. NAH.

Co-parenting done right

Divorced man faces criticism for refusing to attend Thanksgiving with ex-wife

Man gets called out for prioritizing new wife over family.

Navigating the complexities of blended families during the holidays

User accuses man of being selfish and prioritizing new wife.

New wife may not be responsible for divorce. Suck it up!

Holidays are for awkward small talk, fake it till you make it

Curious commenter asks if OP cheated, sparks suspicion

Thanksgiving is about family, not who you’re currently married to ♂️. Exclusion is not the solution.

Co-parenting is tough, but excluding the ex isn’t the solution.

Divorced man’s Thanksgiving dilemma: family loves ex-wife, new wife insecure
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Parent struggles with Thanksgiving dinner arrangements amid divorce.

New wife, who dis? NTA for skipping awkward Thanksgiving dinner.

Navigating family dynamics after divorce

Family drama at Thanksgiving? NTA for standing your ground

Navigating family drama and adultery accusations during Thanksgiving dinner

New wife, no strife: NTA for skipping ex at Thanksgiving

Co-parenting advice for new wife to be accepted by family

Man gets called out for refusing to attend Thanksgiving dinner
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Suggests avoiding drama by hosting a second Thanksgiving at home

Divorced parents don’t have to keep in-laws during holidays.

Divorced man not wrong for refusing Thanksgiving with ex-wife.

Supportive comment suggests excluding ex from Thanksgiving, with sassy tone.

NAH dilemma: ex-wife, new wife, kids, and Thanksgiving misery

Parent trap situation? Tell them to respect your decisions

Family invites ex-wife to Thanksgiving without asking. Commenter calls out

Family values differ, but acceptance is key

New girlfriend shares experience and supports OP’s decision.

NTA. Stick to your plan and have a great Thanksgiving

Putting new wife first. NTA, ex should make other plans.

Skipping Thanksgiving with ex and new wife. NTA.
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Navigating family dynamics after divorce can be tough

Divorced parents’ Thanksgiving could be great for kids

Putting your new wife over your kids is not cool

Navigating family dynamics during the holidays can be tricky

Choosing new wife over kids’ Thanksgiving with their mother? YTA

Ex-wife’s close relationship with family trumps new wife’s feelings. YTA.

Navigating blended families during holidays can be tricky

User calls out man for not attending Thanksgiving with ex-wife and new wife, advises therapy
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Man rushes into new marriage, demands ex-wife not attend Thanksgiving. YTA.

Suggests celebrating Thanksgiving with new wife’s family instead.

Choosing between ex-wife and new wife for Thanksgiving dinner ♂️

Navigating family dynamics during the holidays is a no-win situation

Family invites ex-wife to Thanksgiving dinner with new wife? NTA/WTF.

Divorced parents invited ex-wife to Thanksgiving, NTA for refusing.

Ex’s invitation is disrespectful to OP and new wife

Ex-husband wants ex-wife to make other plans for Thanksgiving dinner

Exclusion at the kid’s table. NTA for not attending.

New wife deserves a comfortable place in family gatherings

Setting boundaries for ex at holidays. NTA

Navigating family dynamics during the holidays can be tough.
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Supportive comment encourages standing up for new wife at Thanksgiving.

Divorced family members still invited to Thanksgiving, creating reunion vibes

NTA stands up to meddling parents, saves Thanksgiving

Navigating family dynamics during the holidays can be tricky

Creating new traditions after loss can bring joy
