Man Puts Friend’s Trauma Over Fiancée’s Comfort: Right or Wrong?

Picture this: your best friend is going through a tough time after losing a parent, and you’re doing everything you can to support them. But your fiancée isn’t happy with how much attention you’re giving your friend, and she’s demanding to know all the details. What would you do? One man found himself in this exact situation, and he chose to prioritize his friend’s trauma over his fiancée’s comfort. Was he right to do so? Let’s dive into the story and find out.

Best Friend’s Struggle

Fiancée’s Curiosity

Trying to Keep It Private

The ‘Nolan Situation’

Late Night Visits

Fiancée’s Disapproval

Drawing the Line

Fiancée’s Demands

Standing Up for Nolan

Priorities

Clarifications

More Context

Friendship vs. Relationship: The Ultimate Test

In a battle between friendship and relationship, one man decided to prioritize his best friend’s trauma over his fiancée’s comfort. He defended his actions by saying that her comfort was less important than someone’s *actual physical well-being.* This decision left his fiancée hurt and feeling left out, causing her to temporarily move out. So, what does the internet think about this situation? Let’s dive into the top responses and see if our protagonist made the right call.

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Fiancée excluded and made to wonder about secret ‘Nolan situation’

Friend’s manipulative behavior and emotional neediness causing tension in group.

“Your fiancee is going to be the most important person in your life.”

“YTA it’s one thing to want to respect your friend’s privacy but when you’re so involved that he’s just showing up to the house you share unannounced, your fiancée deserves to know why.”

Fiancée caught in the middle of friend’s secret late-night visits

“YTA. Choosing your friend over your fiancée? That’s a**hole move! “

“YTA. You’re shutting her out. Do you even like her? “

OP prioritizes internet strangers over fiance, causing relationship issues. YTA

Curious girlfriend excluded from conversation, wants to know more

“YTA. Your fiancee deserves honesty and trust. “

Long-standing secret meetings make woman feel like she’s in middle school

Fiancée excluded from friend group, AITA would support her.

INFO: Friend knows about fiancée’s trauma but not her feelings?

Op INFO: YTA for prioritizing friend over your fiance

Curious about the dynamics of living with friends and partners.

OP prioritizes friend over fiancée: communication breakdown

“Soft soft YTA”: A plea for understanding and compromise.

Commenter wonders if OP explained ‘Nolan situation’; others speculate marriage

Ignoring your fiancée for friends? YTA, time to prioritize!

Did you explain his trauma and support needs?