Imagine this: you’re a 23-year-old guy, minding your own business, living your life. You’re of mixed heritage, African American and Chinese American to be exact, but your physical features lean more towards your African American side. There’s this girl, a blast from your high school past, who has an intense fascination with all things Asian. She’s so engrossed in the culture that she makes everyone uncomfortable. You’ve managed to fly under her radar… until one fateful day at a Korean BBQ place.
The Girl with an Asian Obsession
Caught in the Act at Korean BBQ
The Unwanted Attention Begins
The Plot Thickens: Single and Ready to Mingle? ♂️
A Love Confession and a Harsh Rejection
The Aftermath: Accusations and Regrets ️
Caught in a Cultural Crossfire: Is He the Bad Guy?
Our mystery man, a blend of African American and Chinese American heritage, found himself in a sticky situation when an old schoolmate with a deep-seated obsession for Asian culture discovered his mixed heritage. From social media stalking to love confessions, this girl was relentless. But when our guy finally lost his patience and told her off, he found himself at the receiving end of hateful messages and accusations, even from his own family. Was he too harsh, or was he justified in his response? Let’s dive into some popular opinions on this dramatic saga.
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Avoiding moral dilemmas: silently blocking someone vs giving a wake-up call
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NTA. Finally called out inappropriate behavior. Friends and family MIA
Empowering choice: It’s your interest, not up to her.
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OP rejects admirer’s Asian fetish, friends don’t understand. NTA
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NTA: Family’s opinions don’t matter, you had every right to speak up
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Not the a**hole. Tell us more about this intriguing situation!
Not the a**hole, but why? Share your thoughts!
Calling out a school bully. NTA for standing up!
Calling out racism: NTA shuts down admirer’s cultural fetishization
Curiosity about her ethnicity adds a twist to this obsession
NTA. She’s fetishizing you based on your mixed heritage
Creepy encounters with inappropriate comments and Asian fetishes
Not the a**hole. Ignored hints lead to unwanted affection.
Obsessive admirer seeks credibility, but NTA sets clear boundaries
She’s making a fetish of you! Time for a reality check.
Playing hardball with a culture-obsessed admirer. NTA for shutting them down.
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Empathy for cultural discomfort
She has issues. No a**hole here.
NTA. Condolences on dealing with a super misogynistic family
NTA. Being attracted to cultures is fine, but not obsessively.
One-way ticket needed for this unwanted culture-obsessed admirer
NTA. Mixed race relationships and kids are not playthings , block the haters
Asserting boundaries: Standing up against unwanted affection
NTA. Standing up to a creepy stalker and her enablers.
Accurate read on her character. You’re not the a**hole.
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Spooky admirer escalates to hostility. Stay safe!
Racial fetishists? No thanks! NTA for calling them out.
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“I’m done with anyone who fetishizes my race. ♀️”
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Toxic obsession: NTA, stay away from her
NTA. Educate her on cultural sensitivity and set boundaries.
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“Appreciating Asian culture doesn’t mean fetishizing. NTA, expose her!”
NTA! Fetishism is wrong. It’s dehumanizing and rude. Stand your ground!
Gross girl gets told off! NTA for standing up!
Racist fetishization? Not cool! Shut it down!
Shutting down a creepy admirer: No regrets, no remorse.
Navigating unwanted cultural obsession: being cruel to be kind
Confusion and disbelief in the air!
Stay away from the crazy! NTA
NTA: Calling out a fetish, sometimes being a dick is necessary
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Watch out for psycho admirers, they’re trouble as bloody hell
NTA: Creepy admirer from school learns a much-needed lesson
NTA. Dodged a bullet with this socially clueless admirer
NTA she sucks
Fetishization and discrimination? NTA! Stand up against harassment!
Supportive comment, hoping for resolution and family support.
NTA. Fetishized fantasy, ignorance, and racism. Stand your ground
Avoiding crazy admirers. You made the right call!
“NTA. Fetishizing ethnicity and ignoring sexual preferences? That’s super weird! “
