Picture this: you’re working hard to provide for your significant other, and you come home to find your cupboards bare, your favorite snacks gone, and your dinner plans ruined. That’s exactly what happened to one man (28m) when his girlfriend (26f) started eating everything in their home. Money is tight since his girlfriend lost her job six months ago, and he’s been covering almost all of their expenses. But when she started eating everything, even his favorite treats and food he’d specifically labeled, he reached his breaking point.
The Unemployed Girlfriend ️
The Food Problem ️
Empty Cupboards
No Respect for Labels ️
Weight Gain
The Subway Incident
Missing Sandwich ️♂️
Birthday Cupcakes and Pomegranate Juice
Gone in a Flash ⚡
The Breaking Point
Her Excuses
Disgusted and Angry
Fat Shaming?
Food Fiasco: Is He the Bad Guy?
This hardworking boyfriend is at his wit’s end. His girlfriend has been unemployed for six months, and he’s been covering their expenses. But when she starts eating everything in sight, leaving him hungry and frustrated, he loses his cool. From disappearing Subway sandwiches to devoured birthday cupcakes, it seems like nothing is safe in their home. When he finally confronts her, she claims he’s fat-shaming her and that she can’t help her eating habits due to stress. Is he in the wrong for yelling at her, or is he justified in his anger? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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Dump her! Gluttonous girlfriend with no regard for others.
Red flag! Dude, get out of that toxic relationship!
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