Love is a beautiful journey, full of surprises. Some surprises are delightful, while others can be… well, let’s just say, a bit overwhelming. Our protagonist, let’s call him Mr. Stunned, found himself in such a situation when his girlfriend of 14 years decided to pop the question in front of their parents over a Zoom call. While this might sound like a romantic gesture to some, for Mr. Stunned, it was a moment of sheer panic and embarrassment. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of emotions.
Setting the Stage

The Strains of Parenthood

Insecurities and Job Woes

The Unexpected Moment

Caught Off Guard

The Fallout

A Proposal Gone Wrong: The Aftermath ️
Caught off guard by his girlfriend’s unexpected proposal, Mr. Stunned did what he thought was best – he excused himself from the Zoom call, leaving a virtual room full of shocked faces. When he returned, he found his girlfriend in tears, leading to a three-hour emotional showdown. He was left questioning his actions and wondering if he was in the wrong. The internet has been buzzing with opinions on this dramatic love story. Let’s see what they have to say. ️♀️
Op gets called out for wasting 14 years, YTA

YTA for stringing her along after 14 years and two kids

14 years, 2 kids, and still can’t get your s**t together?

“YTA for stringing her along. This relationship seems completely one-sided.”

Contempt or love? A chilling tale of mixed emotions.

“YTA. You expected her to read your mind instead of telling her how you felt. Dude, you’re leading her on and blaming her for acting in accordance with your actions. “

YTA for leading her on and not being honest about marriage

“She’s there, she cooks and cleans. So I guess it’s ok”

“I’m just glad I’m not your girlfriend.”

“YTA for leading her on with ‘wishful thinking’ “
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GF supports family while OP resents her. Tough situation

ESH. Surprise proposals are generally a bad idea, but after 14 years, two kids, and discussions about marriage, it’s not really a surprise. Do you even like your girlfriend?

YTA rejects girlfriend’s proposal after 14 years.

Heartbreaking moment of betrayal and shattered trust.

Shocked by his ‘ok’ relationship? Others are disgusted.

Heartbreaking: Man’s indifference leads to girlfriend’s emotional proposal rejection

14 years together and never discussed marriage? YTA for sure!

User accuses OP of not loving their partner enough. YTA

“YTA – 14 years together, 2 kids, and yet marriage is too much? Grow up! “

14 years wasted? YTA for dragging your feet
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“Ok” relationship turns into a surprise proposal. Love or confusion?

Confusion and commitment issues lead to judgement in this relationship.
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Rejected proposal: He said ‘no’ and she’s not happy

Last Updated on November 8, 2023 by Diply Social Team