We’ve all heard of ‘girls night’ – a time for female friends to bond and enjoy each other’s company. But what happens when a male friend feels left out? ♂️ In a recent story, a man finds himself excluded from his mostly female friend group’s ‘girls night’ and decides to voice his feelings. As the conversation unfolds, emotions run high and friendships are tested. Let’s dive into the story and see how it all unravels.
The Guy in Female Friend Groups ♂️

Respecting Female Safe Spaces

Another ‘Girls Night’ Exclusion

Voicing His Feelings ️

The Friends’ Response

Hurtful Behavior

Edit: No More Guys Nights

Against Gender Separation

Not the Most Masculine Man

Lack of Male Friends

Not About Loneliness

Emotions Run High in Friend Group
So, our male protagonist finds himself feeling left out after being excluded from his mostly female friend group’s ‘girls’ night.’ He tries to voice his feelings and even offers to take a backseat during the event, but his friends still refuse to let him join. This leads to hurt feelings and a tense situation among the group. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Man gets called out for wanting to join ‘female safe space’

Men, respect women’s space. Don’t be a**holes.

Consider having your own guys’ night. Gentle YTA

Boundaries are important, don’t push your friends

Man gets called out for trying to join ‘Girls Night’

Guy excluded from ‘Girls Night’ called out for not respecting boundaries

Guy excluded from girls night called out for selfish behavior

Asking to join ‘Girls Night’ – YTA, but not irredeemable

Respectful discussion turns sour, YTA for not letting go

Man complains about not being invited to ‘Girls Night’, gets called out for being TA

Friend shamed for wanting to join ‘Girls Night’ ♂️

Respect their safe spaces, bud. YTA for not understanding.

Sorry dude, YTA. Girls deserve some girl time

Let friendships grow naturally, don’t insist on being included everywhere. YTA

Don’t be entitled, respect boundaries. YTA

Being excluded from girls’ night doesn’t make him entitled. YTA.

Rejected guy friend told to find other friends

Gender-specific activities can be exclusive. YTA comment defended.

Don’t ruin friendships over a missed girls’ night
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User accuses commenter of bigotry for wanting to join female groups.

A thoughtful reflection on wanting to be accepted in women spaces

Friend criticized for trying to control group events. YTA.

User expresses moral concern with gender-based events and receives mixed responses.

Men, respect women’s boundaries. YTA for feeling left out.

Friend calls out man for invading women’s safe space

Understand boundaries and build other friendships. Soft YTA.

Man criticized for wanting to join ‘Girls Night’

A woman explains why the man is YTA for wanting to join girls’ night.

Sensitive suggestion for possible gender identity exploration ️

Suggesting OP might be trans/non-binary, tread lightly

Man learns he’s not entitled to understand ‘female experience’

A cautionary tale for men wanting to join women’s events

Suggest solutions to feel better about being left out

Girls night is for girls only. YTA, learn to accept it.

Man demands spot in ‘Girls Night’ and gets called out YTA

Respect their decision, guys’ nights happen without females too

Excluding one woman from a ‘guy’s day’ was brutal

Man criticized for not understanding need for all-girls night

Gendered double standards in social gatherings.

Accept that friends do things separately, have a guys night

Girls nights are normal. YTA doesn’t need to understand.

Learn to be alone. Don’t make girl’s night about you.

Being excluded doesn’t make it okay to guilt-trip friends

Gender shouldn’t be a barrier to friendship

Sorry, buddy. Girls night is for girls only

Seek out more queer friends for inclusive and enriching experiences

Respect women’s need for a safe space , YTA. Don’t be a prick

NAH commenter thinks it’s fair for OP to express his feelings.

A boyfriend’s reaction to being left out of girls night. YTA.

Ouch! Harsh comment shuts down desperate invite-seeker.

Don’t be clingy. Girls night is sacrosanct

User suggests finding male friends instead of invading women’s spaces. YTA.

Being left out sucks, but asking to join was wrong
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Man criticized for wanting to join ‘Girls Night’

Friend calls out behavior, warns of consequences.

Friend is told they’re the a**hole for wanting to join girls night

Advice for finding a more inclusive community

YTA gets shut down for wanting to crash ‘girls night’

Respect their boundaries and make plans with other people

Women defend ‘Girls Night’ as a space to relax and support.

Being excluded doesn’t give you the right to throw tantrums ♂️. Time to make new friends .

Get some guy friends, YTA.

Gender-neutral friend group excludes male friend from ‘Girls Night’

Gender-separated events are okay, YTA comment defends exclusion.

Man receives soft YTA for wanting to join ‘Girls Night’

Woman explains why OP is the a**hole for wanting inclusion.
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Friendship drama: Commenter called out for whining about exclusion

Exclusion is hurtful, but respect their desire for a girls night.

NTA. The comment section is not a men’s club either

Exclusion based on gender hurts. Validating feelings is important.

User calls out man for expecting women to cater to him

Suggestion to plan a mixed group hangout instead

Friend calls out man for wanting to join ‘girls night’

Sorry dude, it’s a GIRLS night . Respect their space and privacy.

No guys allowed, YTA. Don’t be a ‘nice guy’ stereotype

Gender-exclusive ‘Girls Night’ causes heated YTA comment.

Friend defends exclusive ‘girls night out’ and sets boundaries.

Man gets called out for invading women’s space

Being uncomfortable with men doesn’t justify gatekeeping women’s spaces. YTA

User calls out OP for being a bad friend

Friend gets called out for wanting to join ‘Girls Night’

Friend calls OP out for not respecting female space

Trying too hard to be included? YTA. Get the message.
