Imagine this: you’re the only guy at a ‘couples’ event, surrounded by your girlfriend and her friends. You’re trying to engage, but all your attempts are met with icy silence. You feel ignored, sidelined, and pretty much invisible. What do you do? Well, one man decided he’d had enough, left the pumpkin patch, and went home to watch a football game. But was he right? Or did he just abandon his girlfriend in a moment of pettiness? Let’s delve into this spicy tale of love, pumpkins, and a Seahawks game.
A ‘Couples’ Event with a Twist

The Cold Shoulder ❄️

A Corn Maze and a Cold Response

The Great Escape ♂️

The Text That Changed Everything

The Aftermath ️

The Fallout

The Morning After ☀️

The Frustration

A Pumpkin Patch, a Football Game, and a Relationship in Turmoil
So, here’s the deal: our man was the lone wolf at a supposed ‘couples’ event, surrounded by his girlfriend and her friends. Despite his efforts, he was met with icy silence and indifference. Feeling ignored, he decided to ditch the pumpkin patch for a football game. He did inform his girlfriend, but she didn’t respond until he was halfway into the second quarter. The next morning, he woke up to a barrage of texts calling him out for his actions. But was he really in the wrong, or was he justified in leaving? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Girlfriend used him for a free ride, shady friends.

NTA: Girlfriend tricked him, ignored him, and had other company. ♂️
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NTA: Prioritizing yourself and recognizing red flags is important.

“NTA, but there’s more to the story… “

NTA. Girlfriend’s inconsiderate behavior shows where you rank in her life

NTA. Girlfriend’s immaturity and friends’ influence hinder resolution.

INFO: Disdainful words fueled by annoyance and being disrespected.

ESH: Lack of communication and condescension led to a mess

NTA. Girlfriend’s immature behavior leads to being left behind

“Age gap drama: 22 vs 27, maturity levels collide! NTA!”

ESH: OP and girlfriend both need to grow up

NTA: Rude girlfriend gets left at pumpkin patch

NTA. GF and friends acting like high schoolers

Does she even like him?

Miscommunication leads to a breakup?

NTA: Did she use you for a pumpkin patch ride?

ESH. Girlfriend treated poorly, but leaving without communication was petty.

NTA: Communication breakdown leads to a pumpkin patch predicament.

NTA: Beware of the double-sided personalities!

NTA. Express your feelings honestly and see how she responds.

ESH: A**hole move and ignoring you? Drama at the pumpkin patch!

ESH: Miscommunication leads to a dramatic pumpkin patch departure

Age gap debate: Immaturity or entitlement?

Actions speak louder than words. Clear sign of disrespect.

ESH. Being mature doesn’t mean being weirdly immature.

NTA, but killing the relationship over a pumpkin patch? Really?

OP tried to engage in conversation, but friends ignored them.

Age gap math gone wrong sparks hilarious debate

“Sus vibes and age gap miscalculation, OP’s judgment questioned.”

Married couple advises to separate, not good for each other.

Age difference causing relationship issues?
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NTA. Immature girlfriend, better off with someone else. Be cautious.

Car > You? Not the a**hole.

NTA: Dump her!

NTA: Age difference isn’t creepy. She ignored you. Disappointing date.

Is he a possessive jerk or just tired of being her driver?

Age matters: Is dating someone closer in age a better idea?

Friendship boundaries: Is it okay to involve yourself in fights?

NTA: Girlfriend’s rude behavior raises red flags for relationship.

Ditched girlfriend at pumpkin patch for not making it a date

Age math error sparks debate in comment section.

ESH! Girlfriend invites you, you feel left out, you ditched her?

NTA for leaving, but YTA for how you handled it.

Everyone sucks here. Drama at the pumpkin patch!

ESH: Immature ‘test’ leads to communication breakdown and relationship issues.

ETA accuses OP’s girlfriend and friends of being TA.

ESH: GF was shitty, but giving ultimatums is an AH move
