Imagine having to choose between your significant other and your family in a moment of crisis. That’s exactly what happened to a 25-year-old guy when his 16-year-old brother was kicked out of their parents’ house. With his girlfriend already spending the night, he was faced with a tough decision. Did he make the right call?
Seeking Outside Perspective

Family Dynamics

Brother’s Struggles

Parents’ Homophobia

Brother Gets a Boyfriend

The Breaking Point

Dad’s Ultimatum

Offering Shelter

Girlfriend’s Disapproval

Girlfriend’s Ultimatum

Standing Up for Brother

Girlfriend’s Shocked Reaction

Aftermath

Reflecting on the Relationship

Realizations and Plans

Choosing Family Over Love
In a difficult situation, our hero chose to stand up for his baby brother, even if it meant his girlfriend would storm out. The aftermath left him reflecting on his relationship and realizing that his girlfriend might not be the nicest person. As he plans to talk to her, he’s prepared for a possible breakup, but ultimately, he knows that family comes first. What do you think of his decision?
NTA for kicking out girlfriend who gave ultimatum, lacks empathy

NTA gets support and a witty reply in comment section

Supportive comment and a red flag response

NTA. Girlfriend gave ultimatum about family, seems immature

NTA defends kicking girlfriend out for brother’s sake.

NTA prioritizes vulnerable brother over girlfriend’s arbitrary age preferences.
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NTA stands up for brother, girlfriend throws tantrum

Brother’s loyalty shines through in face of girlfriend’s selfishness

Girlfriend kicked out for brother, commenters agree with NTA verdict

NTA prioritizes brother over childfree GF, temporary breakup expected.

Misleading title, NTA for standing up for brother’s safety.

Harry Potter reference sparks funny exchange in comments

Commenter praises OP for setting a boundary with high-maintenance girlfriend

Girlfriend dislikes kids despite brother’s situation

Commenters call out clickbait title and recycled post.

Standing up for family. NTA. GF threw a fit

Commenter thinks GF is a clown

Commenter calls girlfriend selfish and advises to break up

NTA. Girlfriend lacks compassion

Standing up for family: NTA kicks out girlfriend

NTA for kicking out girlfriend over brother’s stay. Good job!

NTA kicks out girlfriend, commenters suggest rethinking relationship

Brother vs girlfriend drama ends in growth for all.

NTA commenter advises caution in relationship with girlfriend.

NTA stands up to ultimatum and supports brother

Harsh comment gets no replies. ♂️

NTA commenter calls out unnecessary involvement of roommates in arguments

NTA. Heartbreaking situation with brother. Girlfriend is selfish and entitled.

NTA for prioritizing brother. Girlfriend needs to grow up

Girlfriend kicked herself out? NTA wins!

NTA kicks out girlfriend, red flags raised

Choosing family over girlfriend. NTA.

NTA but red flag? Tell us more!

Commenter expresses disgust towards girlfriend’s lack of compassion. NTA.

Valuing family is important in a relationship

OP not the a**hole, but girlfriend’s weird reaction raises red flags

NTA kicks out unsupportive girlfriend. DTMFA, red flag factory

NTA kicks out selfish girlfriend for brother’s sake

Off is definitely the direction in which she should f**k

NTA – Kicking out gf for brother’s sake, leaving not kicked.

NTA for prioritizing brother over selfish girlfriend

NTA protects brother, GF leaves.

Not a keeper? Sounds like there’s a story there…

Compassionate commenter suggests cookies for sad teenager ❤️

NTA, good on you for being a great big bro!

Girlfriend gave ultimatum, left when he chose brother. NTA

Supportive commenter advocates for LGBTQ+ youth and prioritizing safety ❤️

NTA. Red flag for girlfriend’s lack of empathy towards brother.

Being a great brother makes you NTA

Bro gets support to dump girlfriend.

Commenter supports OP and suggests calling police for illegal behavior

Standing up for family, even if it’s uncomfortable.

NTA – Dump her. Arrogant and entitled behavior will worsen.

NTA kicks out girlfriend, needs new one.

NTA for kicking out girlfriend to care for vulnerable brother

Commenter annoyed by excessive red flag emojis in comments.

NTA. Girlfriend wants you to choose her over family in need

NTA, girlfriend’s selfishness and immaturity are major red flags

Supportive comment, praising OP for prioritizing family over girlfriend

Taking in a teenager is tough but the right thing. NTA

NTA. Girlfriend kicked herself out. Parents are homophobes

Dump the girlfriend? Agree. NTA

NTA! The girlfriend’s behavior is unacceptable. Reconsider the relationship.

Commenter defends OP and calls out girlfriend’s behavior

Girlfriend gave ultimatum, got what she asked for. NTA

NTA for prioritizing family over selfish girlfriend

Last Updated on June 11, 2023 by Diply Social Team