Imagine living with your partner and their child, only to find out that your partner’s ex has been visiting behind your back! That’s exactly what happened to this 35-year-old man, who’s been with his girlfriend, Sara, for four years. When Sara and her son Nathan moved in with our protagonist, they agreed that Nathan’s father, Mark, could visit their apartment only when he was present. But things took a turn for the worse when he discovered that Sara had been secretly allowing Mark to visit while he was at work!
The Living Arrangement

Moving In Together

The Agreement

Mark’s Visits

The Revelation

Sara’s Confession

Trust Violated

The Argument

Backlash Begins

Court Order Details

Trust Broken and Lives Upended
Our protagonist is now facing backlash from Sara, her parents, and even social media for kicking her and Nathan out of their home. They claim it’s a small issue, but he feels betrayed by Sara’s actions. With Mark’s criminal record adding to the mix, it’s no wonder our protagonist wanted to be present during the visits. The question remains: is he in the wrong for kicking them out, or is Sara’s betrayal too much to bear? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation…
NTA, she broke your rule and lied about it multiple times

NTA- She lied and manipulated you, no respect for boundaries

NTA. She lied about ex visiting. Why meet at OP’s?

ESH. Child punished for lying, but kicking them out instantly?

NTA for setting boundaries. Proceed with caution in relationship.

Co-parenting drama and dishonesty: both sides share the blame.

What is she hiding? Ex-boyfriend drama sparks suspicion

AH boyfriend kicks out girlfriend and her son from ‘his’ apartment

NTA: Trust broken, red flags ignored, blame shifted. Time to move on.

ESH: Drama unfolds as lies and unfair rules lead to eviction.

NTA: Rules agreed upon, ex lied, trust broken, drama ensues!

ESH. Controlling partner kicks out girlfriend and her son

ESH for not making Sara and Nathan feel at home

ESH: Trust breach, ridiculous rule, and inconvenient visitation. Drama unfolds!

NTA. Ex-boyfriend drama unfolds as girlfriend violates visitation agreement.

ESH: Both should have communicated better about visitation rights

OP’s controlling behavior and extreme reaction sparks concern

ESH: Controlling behavior and lack of communication ruins relationship ♀️
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YTA for kicking out girlfriend and her son. Trust and compromise!

ESH: Drama unfolds as ex-boyfriend kicks out girlfriend and her son

NTA. Communication is key in any relationship
