We’ve all been there – you’re in a social setting with your significant other, trying to make a lighthearted joke to break the ice. But what happens when that joke backfires and leaves your partner fuming? One man found himself in this exact situation when he joked that he was “dating the wrong friend” at a dinner party. Let’s dive into the drama and see what went down. ️
Meeting the Girlfriend’s Friends

The Birthday Get-Together

Beth, the Unpopular Friend

Badmouthing History ️

The Fateful Joke

Temperature Drop

Just a Joke?

Petty Girl Drama?

The Boyfriend’s Realization

Making It Up to Her

The Aftermath of a Joke Gone Wrong
So, our jokester boyfriend learned the hard way that not all jokes are well-received, especially when they involve someone his girlfriend doesn’t like. After realizing the impact of his words, he’s planning to make it up to her with a special seafood and white wine dinner. But the question remains: was the joke really that bad, or was the girlfriend overreacting? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Man compares GF unfavorably to her nasty friend. YTA, 100%

Joking about dating someone else for food preferences? YTA.

Savage reply to man joking about dating wrong friend

YTA throws neg-grenade at dinner, refuses to take responsibility

Partner’s friend is off-limits. YTA for making that joke

Insensitive joke leads to insecurities. YTA

Man makes insensitive joke, gets called out for being YTA

Gender double standard called out in dating joke. YTA.

User calls out commenter for insensitive joke, suggests breakup

User calls out OP for hitting on friend, dismisses gf’s feelings

Making inappropriate jokes early in a relationship is not cool

Insensitive guy humiliates GF in front of friends. YTA

Joking or stirring? YTA called out for sexist remark.
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User calls out OP for insensitive joke, no replies.

YTA gets roasted for asking if he’s TA

User jokes about dating wrong friend, gets called out as YTA.

Insulting your girlfriend’s friend? YTA
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Accused of being manipulative with no sympathy.
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A joke gone wrong. YTA and now she’s dating wrong.
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User calls out AH for hurting GF, warns of consequences

Insensitive comment receives justified YTA judgment and explanation.

Sarcastic comment calls out obvious YTA, no replies.

Joking about dating wrong friend makes OP the a**hole

Ignoring your girlfriend’s feelings and dismissing her is not cool

Insensitive joke hurts girlfriend’s feelings and isn’t even funny

YTA for joking about dating girlfriend’s friend, shows lack of tact.

Apologize to your gf and have her back. YTA
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Taking her for a treat won’t fix this. YTA.

YTA. Harsh, but maybe a lesson learned for his girlfriend ♂️
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Food joke backfires, YTA risks losing girlfriend. ♂️

User called out for being a j**k in dating joke
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YTA makes girlfriend feel like s**t for a joke

Don’t be a YTA, it’s just a dumb joke

User calls out OP for lack of tact in dating drama

Ouch! That burn was hotter than a thousand suns!

Joking about dating wrong friend? YTA, says commenter.

Bad taste joke humiliates girlfriend in front of friends

Captain America calls out YTA for negging his girlfriend

Dismissive comment earns YTA judgement and rightful criticism

Don’t judge compatibility based on food choices, YTA

YTA for insensitive comment. Think before you speak
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Girlfriend’s insensitive joke about friend’s wealth hurts boyfriend’s feelings

Joking about dating your girlfriend’s friend? YTA, dude.

R**e joke or not? YTA should apologize, not brush off.

YTA: Commenter calls out OP for insensitive joke.

This commenter has zero tolerance for bad dates

A scathing comment calls out an idiotic jokester

Joking about dating the ‘hated’ friend? YTA, in trouble

Stop pretending hurting people is comedy. Apologize and show appreciation

Making jokes at your girlfriend’s expense is not cool, dude

Publicly disrespecting girlfriend, YTA. Will lead to drama and fallout

First impressions matter, YTA. Her friends won’t forget easily

Insulting your girlfriend in front of her friends? YTA big time

Insensitive joke earns YTA label, alternative punchline suggested

A fiery response to a tasteless joke

Open flirting with disliked friend? YTA BIG TIME

A joke in bad taste, YTA. Would you like it?

Last Updated on February 13, 2024 by Diply Social Team