Picture this: A small town boy, a childhood sweetheart, a second family, and a heartrending parting. Now add a dash of drama with the passing of a beloved mother figure, a will that leaves everyone stunned, and a bitter dispute over the last remains of a woman who meant the world to both parties. What’s the right thing to do when you’re left with the ashes of your ex’s mother? This is the story of a man we’ll call ‘Townie’, his ex ‘Emily’, and their struggle over the ashes of the dearly departed ‘Greta’.
A Childhood Bond Forms
From Friends to More
The Parting Ways
The Bond with Greta
Greta’s Battle with Cancer
The Unanswered Calls ☎️
The Funeral and the Will ⚰️
The Unexpected Inheritance
The Clash Over the Ashes ⚔️
The Final Decision
The Lingering Doubt
A Heartrending Dilemma: Who Truly Deserves the Ashes?
In a tale that tugs at the heartstrings, ‘Townie’ finds himself at the center of an emotional storm. He’s inherited the ashes of his ex’s mother, ‘Greta’, a woman who was like a second mother to him. ‘Emily’, his ex, is furious and believes she should have the ashes. However, ‘Townie’ and ‘Carol’, Greta’s younger daughter, decide to spread the ashes in Greta’s favorite spot. Despite the conflict, they give Emily a year to change her mind. But as the clock ticks, ‘Townie’ is left with a nagging doubt: Has he done the right thing? Let’s dive into the internet’s reactions to this heartrending dilemma…
NTA. Honoring the deceased’s wishes is the right thing to do
Inheriting ex’s mother’s ashes: NTA, it’s what matters ❤️
NTA. Sweet gesture: memorial necklace for Emily with some ashes.
OP is NTA for keeping ex’s mother’s ashes. Engaging debate.
NTA. You’re honoring Carol’s wishes and involving Emily.
NTA. Respectful of Greta’s wishes, considerate of Emily’s emotions.
NTA. Respectful handling of ashes, considering wishes and family dynamics.
NAH. Greta’s ashes, Carol accepts. Emily’s absence and disrespect.
NTA. Spreading ashes without Emily? That’s cold, but justified.
NAH. Emily’s grief may be causing her pain and confusion.
Reflecting on past actions and showing kindness can make a difference.
NTA. Spreading ashes where loved, waiting year for ceremony.
Heartless or Heroic? Man refuses to give ex’s mother’s ashes.
NTA. A heartfelt compromise: a small urn for Emily, rest scattered.
“Family” is determined by action, you have loved Greta ❤️
Will readings are more common in movies than in real life
Complicated inheritance: Should ashes be divided or kept together?
Grieving choices debated: NAH, but Reddit’s not sure about Emily’s.
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Mixed opinions on preserving ashes in complicated relationship.
Share the ashes, spread the love, and honor Greta’s wishes ❤️
Inheriting ashes: Heartless or heroic? NTA, they’re willed to you.
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Commenter raises valid questions about relationships and closure. NTA.
YTA: Couldn’t give her a locket? Heartless or heroic?
Heartwarming: Man honors ex’s dying wish, defying all expectations ❤️
NTA for keeping Greta’s ashes, but consider waiting longer ⌛
Honoring a loved one’s wishes can still cause family tension.
NTA – Empathetic response and suggestion for compromise with jewelry.
Inheriting ex’s mother’s ashes: Heartless or heroic?
NTA, but consider giving her a small vial of ashes
Blood doesn’t make you family! NTA, Emily
Honoring the deceased’s wishes over family demands
Last Updated on October 23, 2023 by Diply Social Team
