We all have that one friend who disappears from social media and our lives for a while, but what if it happened multiple times a year? One man has had enough of his girlfriend’s friend’s mysterious month-long social hiatuses and decided to take a stand. When she reappeared and attended a dinner party at their place, he chose to ignore her, sparking a heated debate. ️
The Mysterious Friend ️♀️
The Concerned Friends
The Rejection
The Return
The Exhaustion
The Dinner Party ️
The Confrontation
The Cold Shoulder ❄️
The Emotional Exit
The Frustration
To Ignore or Not to Ignore
The man’s decision to ignore his girlfriend’s friend at the dinner party has left everyone questioning whether he was too harsh or justified in his actions. After all, the friend’s constant disappearing acts and refusal to answer questions about her whereabouts have left everyone emotionally exhausted. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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NTA: Friend’s mysterious disappearances cause tension and differing opinions
“ESH. It’s weird, but friends need to respect boundaries. “
“NTA. She wants attention but can’t handle being ignored.”
“YTA. Either be her friend or don’t. Don’t play games.”
ESH for not respecting friend’s need for alone time
“YTA for ignoring her, let her deal with her struggles “
Ignoring her was a**hole move. Communication is key
GF’s friend’s mysterious disappearances and desire for attention are sad
“YTA. Respect boundaries and don’t be rude to her friend.”
YTA. Let your girlfriend handle her friend’s mysterious disappearances.
“YTA, yeah. You don’t know what’s going on in that friend’s life, or what she’s struggling with. My guess would be mental health that she doesn’t want to discuss, because there is still a really large stigma against it. And honestly, that’s between her and her friends. If your GF is tired of being her friend, she should definitely stop being her friend. There’d be nothing wrong with that! Your GF would be absolutely justified to stop being friends with her. You having a guest over and straight up ignoring them like a five year old? That makes you an a-hole.”
“Disappearing friend” needs space, but friends won’t let her
“ESH. Time to grow up, folks! “
Commenter suggests possible reasons for friend’s mysterious disappearances. YTA.
YTA for being passive aggressive towards your girlfriend’s friend
Ignoring GF’s friend may indicate depression. YTA for dismissing.
Ignoring her friend at your own party? YTA, dude!
YTA for not respecting her boundaries
Ignoring GF’s friend and making her cry? YTA, not cool
Taking time alone to process emotions, friends understand and respect.
YTA for ignoring GF’s friend. Don’t be a bully
“YTA
Maybe she drops off the grid because she is depressed.”
“YTA. You undermined your gf’s effort and made things worse.”
YTA for ignoring GF’s friend, be an adult and communicate
Does she want support or attention? Or does she want space?
“YTA. Ignoring her won’t solve your issues with your GF.”
Commenter thinks OP is the a**hole for not respecting GF’s friend’s alone time ♀️
