Man Gets Flak for Not Revealing He’s Gay to Flirty Women

Picture this: you’re a 23-year-old guy, openly gay, but you don’t feel the need to broadcast your sexual orientation to the world because, well, it’s nobody’s business. You’re helping out your dad by delivering some photography work for him, and while you’re there, a few young women start flirting with you. You don’t encourage it, but you also don’t mention that you’re gay. Next thing you know, you’re being called an a**hole for not disclosing your orientation. Is it really your fault? Let’s dive into this intriguing story.

Proudly Out, but Lowkey ️‍

Dad’s Big 4-0

A Favor for Hungover Dad

Delivery Boy for a Day ‍♂️

Meeting Dad’s Colleagues

Flirting Time?

Straight Women vs. Gay Man ‍♂️

Dad Spills the Tea ☕

The Accusations Begin

Dad Defends His Son

Feeling Guilty?

The Great Gay Debate: Who’s in the Wrong?

So, our protagonist finds himself in a sticky situation. He’s openly gay but doesn’t feel the need to broadcast it. After helping his dad by delivering some photography work, he ends up being flirted with by a few young women. He doesn’t encourage it, but he doesn’t mention he’s gay either. When his dad reveals the truth, these women call our guy an a**hole for not disclosing his orientation. With his dad defending him, our guy can’t help but feel a little guilty. But who’s really at fault here? Let’s see what the internet has to say…

NTA. It’s not their business. Don’t hit on strangers

Not the a**hole for not revealing sexuality. They made themselves feel foolish

Responders agree that it’s difficult to work in the fact that you’re gay without coming off as an a**hole or full of yourself. One responder humorously suggests a way to do it seamlessly.

Awkwardness brings laughter, commenter is glad. NTA.

No obligation to disclose sexuality. Dad’s advice is spot-on

NTA. Letting them down easy isn’t your responsibility

Commenter defends OP’s behavior, others call out inappropriate behavior

Doubtful comment authenticity, but consensus that OP is NTA

Agreement and appreciation for comment defending man’s actions.

Redditors agree: NTA for not revealing sexuality to women

Confused commenter questions relevance of comment with disbelief

Commenter defends OP’s actions in face of criticism.

Commenter calls out post as utter bullshit.

Commenter calls out OP for being surprised by attention.

Being gay doesn’t justify their behavior. NTA

You’re not responsible for their assumptions

Sexual preference shouldn’t affect polite rejection. NTA ️‍

Comment section agrees: OP is NTA in flirting dilemma

Commenter calls out sub’s awfulness in obvious NTA situation

Women hit on gay man, NTA for not revealing sexuality ‍♂️

Comment section negativity is not helping anyone ‍♂️

Confusion arises over who’s the a**hole in this scenario

Comment section off to a rough start

Double standards in flirting. NTA. Kudos to the dad

Commenter clarifies NTA verdict, defends man’s privacy

Women upset when they find out he’s gay

NTA. Flirty coworkers embarrassed, but should know better

Women assume man’s sexuality, get told to ‘suck it up’

NTA shuts down flirty women in hilarious work encounter

Woman defends man’s right to not disclose sexuality

NTA for not revealing sexuality, risk of backlash either way

Support for NTA and his dad

You don’t owe anyone an explanation about your identity ✨

Commenter defends man’s right to not reveal sexuality

Female creep equivalent of men hitting on women. Huge NTA!

NTA. Savage comment about female neckbeards

Navigating workplace flirting without outing oneself can be awkward. ESH.

Not obligated to disclose orientation. Women were unprofessional and cringey.

Not the a**hole for not revealing sexuality to strangers

Support for NTA and dad’s actions

NTA for not revealing sexuality, ‘Are the straights ok?’

Women can’t read social cues, commenter not the a**hole

Women hit on him, then called him TA for it

NTA for not disclosing sexuality to strangers. Supportive dad ❤️

Gender double standards called out in flirty situation.

Being gay doesn’t obligate you to disclose it to anyone.

NTA for not revealing sexuality at work. Work is for work

Commenter defends OP’s decision not to reveal sexuality. NTA

NTA for not revealing sexuality, they were unprofessional

Commenter questions if women would react the same if not interested

Mind your own business, they were just thirsty

Inappropriate flirting with a colleague’s kid is gross

You don’t owe anyone an explanation about your love life

Commenter defends man’s decision not to reveal sexuality to flirty women

NTA for not revealing sexuality, insecure women blame him

Keep your sexuality private. Their thirst is not your problem.

Gay man not obligated to reveal sexuality to flirty women

Being gay doesn’t require a placard, NTA for not disclosing ‍❤️

No need to reveal sexual preference, NTA. Grow up, ladies

Being professional doesn’t require revealing sexual orientation. NTA

Sarcastic reply defends OP’s right to not disclose sexuality.

Stay in the closet, says unsupportive commenter

No need to disclose sexuality, NTA