We’ve all heard of couples bonding over shared hobbies, but what happens when one person’s passion for a sport clashes with their partner’s lack of enthusiasm? In this story, a man’s newfound love for running leads to a dramatic showdown at a 5k race. He was excited to share the experience with his less-than-enthusiastic girlfriend, but when she couldn’t keep up, he faced a tough decision: stay with her, or chase his goal time? ♂️
The Running Bug ♂️
5k Dreams
Joining Forces ♀️
Training Troubles
Weeks of Struggles ⏰
Race Day Approaches
Skip-Gallop Strategy
Race Day Blues
The Tough Decision
Beating the Goal ⏱️
Left Behind
Trying to Explain ️
Silent Treatment
The Fallout: Was it Worth it? ♂️
After leaving his girlfriend behind at the 5k race, our protagonist finds himself facing the cold shoulder and a whole lot of drama. Despite trying to explain his side of the story, she’s not having any of it. Was his decision to prioritize his goal time over supporting his girlfriend justified, or should he have stuck by her side? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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GF’s crazy running technique leads to her ditching OP at race
NTA. You had a goal, told her well in advance ♂️. She needs to grow up a bit
NTA. Girlfriend made race about herself. Find someone more supportive.
NTA. Girlfriend’s entitled attitude about 5k race sparks fiery debate
NTA: Girlfriend’s behavior has red flags, leaving him stranded.
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NTA for leaving girlfriend at race, but communication could’ve helped
NTA: Man prioritizes personal milestone over girlfriend’s unrealistic expectations ♂️
NTA: Girlfriend’s tantrum over 5k race shows immaturity and entitlement
“NTA. But this is a red flag. She may have wanted to join you for the run, but couldn’t be bothered to do the hard work, and then wanted to mess up your PB. *Then* has a melt down at you? If she was aligned to your psychological needs she’d be either trying hard to run or be more supportive of a hobby she doesn’t share. If she can’t do either, maybe time to get a fitter girlfriend.
As in athletic. I’m sure she looks perfectly adequate.”
NTA. Partner’s faster, set expectation, should’ve understood and supported.
NTA – Girlfriend expected you to slow down during race ♂️
NTA: Girlfriend insults running hobby, you deserve better
Overcoming fitness obstacles together can be challenging, but worth it
NTA. Girlfriend’s clownish gait ruined your race. She should’ve stayed home.
NTA: Girlfriend acts childish, silent treatment is immature
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NTA. GF got what she deserved
Skipping at a 5k race? Hilarious! Definitely NTA.
NTA: Girlfriend sabotages race, time for a serious discussion
