Man Denies Cheating Wife a Birthday Call to Their Son: Heartless or Justified?

Infidelity is a pain that cuts deep, but when children are involved, the wound becomes a chasm. This heart-wrenching tale of a man, let’s call him ‘Devastated Dad’, who discovered his wife’s affair, takes us on a roller-coaster ride of emotions. From forgiveness to heartbreak, and ultimately, a bitter custody battle. But when his wife’s actions start affecting their children, he puts his foot down. Here’s his story…

The Unraveling of a Marriage

A Heartbreaking Confession

The Emotional Fallout

Protecting the Children ️

Crossing Boundaries

Birthday Drama

A Change of Plans

The Final Straw

Laying Down the Law ⚖️

A Silent Birthday

Legal Dead-End ⚖️

A Mother’s Absence

A Painful Dilemma: Protecting Kids or Respecting Maternal Rights? ‍♂️

In a world where ‘happily ever after’ seems like a distant dream, Devastated Dad’s tale of heartbreak and resilience strikes a chord. His wife’s infidelity and subsequent divorce left him grappling with emotional turmoil. But when her actions began to impact their children, he took a stand. He shielded them from uncomfortable situations and even denied her a birthday call to their son. Was he right in doing so? Or did he cross a line? Let’s delve into the internet’s response to this emotionally charged situation…

NTA. Putting your kids first and setting boundaries.

ESH. Wife cheated, but cutting off contact hurts the kids too

ESH – Using kids as pawns in divorce, but remorseful.

ESH: Co-parenting means making an effort on special occasions

Did the birthday boy have a chance to call mom?

Kid’s birthday: Dad denies wife’s call, but plans separate celebration.

NTA: Cheater boyfriend shouldn’t be involved in kids’ lives.

ESH: Depriving a child of speaking to their mother? Justified or heartless?

Commenter warns about potential legal consequences of denying birthday visitation.

Did she involve the kids in her relationship?

NTA. Prioritizing your children’s safety is crucial. Stay strong.

“YTA- 100%. Don’t use your kids as pawns.” Be the bigger person. Do better.

Defending the husband: justified response to cheating wife’s demands.

ESH. Divorced dad regrets alienating his kids from their mom.

YTA. Punishing your ex, harming your son. Be an adult.

Setting boundaries with ex-wife for kids’ sake. NTA!

YTA – Neglecting your child’s happiness for revenge is heartless.

Son’s punishment?

YTA: Using kids as weapons? Not cool, dude!

NTA, it’s your day!

NTA. Kids upset, doing best in a sh***y situation. Wife excluded.

Unapologetically prioritizing yourself and your kids.

“YTA. Don’t weaponize your children.” – Agreed.

ESH, but kids shouldn’t be used as pawns

User admits being an a**hole but wants what’s best for kids

ESH: Ending relationship doesn’t mean denying her time with kids. ‍♂️

ESH: Divorce can hurt kids, prioritize their emotional well-being

“YTA. Using your son as revenge? Learn and grow. “

YTA denies mom’s birthday call to son. Heartless or justified?

Ex family court worker explains the importance of co-parenting

YTA for denying your child’s birthday call. Be the better parent.

ESH. Toxic custody battle causing confusion and emotional distress for all.

Parental conflict: YTA for prioritizing personal feelings over children’s well-being

ESH: Husband denies wife’s birthday call to son, but is he justified?

Protecting your kids from an inappropriate ex. You’re NTA!

Protecting the kids from mom’s affair: justified or heartless?

“YTA it’s your kids birthday, I bet they want to see their mom as well. Be a parent and put your child first. I bet kids are uncomfortable because you get all pissy Infront of them when this happens.”

ESH – Prioritize your kids, not revenge. It’s their well-being that matters

YTA: Using kids as a weapon? Not cool, dude.

YTA. Don’t let your anger hurt your innocent children.

Cheaters deserve consequences. NTA for denying the call.

NTA: Kids don’t want to talk to her, it’s your time

NTA, prioritize your kids’ comfort and well-being over your ex-wife’s demands.

YTA: Don’t let bitterness ruin your child’s relationship.

ESH: Both parents need to prioritize the kids’ needs ‍

NTA. Kids uncomfortable with mom’s boyfriend. She’s unreliable. Agree!

Concerned parent seeks advice on internet, NTA. Good luck!

Parent struggles with co-parenting, anxiety, and communication during divorce.

Prioritizing kids over betrayal: love should triumph over resentment.

NTA: Be prepared for potential retaliation from your ex-wife

Discover parenting apps and support groups for both parents! ‍ ‍

Everyone sucks here. What happened? Tell me more!

Fiery response shuts down cheating wife debate.

NTA. Protecting your kids makes you a good father.

Stay strong and follow the court orders. You’re NTA!

Ex gets a taste of karma and plays the victim

NTA, court agrees. Family therapy for kids to adjust

NTA, you’re a loving parent. Keep protecting your kids!

NTA for not allowing mom to call, but explain to son

NTA: Excluded bf from call, justified or heartless?

“NTA. Please don’t keep her from speaking with them. “

NTA! Stand up for your kids and set boundaries.

NTA: Kids understand, no FaceTime if she’s with AP

Surprising NTA comment – heartless or justified?