We’ve all heard the saying, ‘sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.’ But what happens when those hurtful words come from the person you love the most? One man found himself in a sticky situation when his wife repeatedly made comments about his weight gain. In an attempt to defend himself, he fired back with a comment about her post-baby body. Now, he’s questioning whether he went too far or if it was a fair response. Let’s dive into the story and find out what led to this heated exchange.
The Backstory: A History of Weight Struggles

A Transformation and a New Love ❤️

Baby on Board!

Gym Time Takes a Backseat ️♂️

Wife’s Hurtful Comments Begin

A Warning Issued ⚠️

The Breaking Point

Clapping Back ️

To Apologize or Not to Apologize? ♂️

Clarifying His Intentions

A Reminder of Previous Conversations ️

The Stay-at-Home Mom Situation

Sharing the Parenting Load

Nighttime Duties

The Verdict: Fair Game or Crossing the Line?
So, our conflicted husband has shared his side of the story, detailing his past struggles with weight, his wife’s hurtful comments, and his eventual clap back. He’s unsure if his comment about her post-baby body was justified or if he should apologize. With emotions running high and both partners feeling the strain of new parenthood, it’s a tough call to make. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation and whether they believe he crossed a line or if it was fair game.
Formerly bullied man defends himself against wife’s weight comments. NTA

Partner’s weight comment was rude, but wife shouldn’t be bitchy.

Man hits back at wife’s weight comments, demands apology. NTA

Supporting each other through weight changes is key

Stand up for yourself and your partner should be supportive. ✊

Man stands up to wife’s hurtful comments about his weight

NTA for standing up to wife’s weight comments.

NTA claps back at wife’s weight comments, sparks debate.

Standing up against weight comments and double standards.

Man defends himself against wife’s bullying, NTA

Woman insults husband’s weight regularly, he claps back. NTA

Partner’s weight comment deserved humbling, but resolution needed for issue.
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Support for husband who stood up to wife’s bullying behavior.

Husband stands up to wife’s weight comments, internet approves.

Man responds to wife’s weight comments with brutal honesty

Petty revenge plan or justified response to wife’s comments?

NTA husband dealing with wife’s weight comments, therapy suggested

Mom defends husband against wife’s mean postpartum behavior. NTA

Encouraging weight loss or shaming the wife? NTA or ESH?

Implying cheating or bullying to make someone lose weight is messed up. NTA.

Both parents need to grow up for the sake of child

Supportive comment reminds couple to be on the same team
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Defending himself, a man responds to his wife’s hurtful comments.

User condemns fat-shaming and defends man’s response to wife’s comments.

Both parties need therapy to work on communication and empathy.

Body-shaming spouse gets taste of their own medicine. NTA

Double standard on name-calling, wife cries when confronted. ♂️

Wife insults husband’s weight, he stands up for himself. NTA.

New mom defends husband against weight comments, advises to stand firm

NTA. Supportive husband claps back at wife’s weight comments.

Golden rule of treating others how you want to be treated.
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Parenting dilemma: Is ‘helping’ your child lose weight justified?

Respect for a supportive dad. Wife was ungrateful and insensitive. NTA.

Man defends himself against wife’s body-shaming. NTA. ♂️

Couple’s hurtful comments call for therapy. ESH, but mostly wife

NTA: Husband stands up to wife’s bullying.

Wife insults husband’s weight, he claps back. Fair game?

NTA shuts down wife’s projection, sets boundary. #Respect

Empathetic commenter supports OP and calls out wife’s behavior. ❤️

Two wrongs don’t make a right, but who won this fight?

Stand up for yourself, but is revenge the answer?

NTA claps back at wife’s weight comments, predicts divorce

NTA claps back at weight comments, internet approves

NTA comment praises man’s bravery in confronting wife’s hurtful words.

Standing up to verbal abuse, but is weight bullying a dealbreaker?

Wife insults husband’s weight, gets called out and deserved it

Supportive comment defends man against wife’s weight comments.

NTA claps back at wife’s weight comments and warns of consequences.

NTA! Man stands up to wife’s weight comments.

Polite request ignored, man claps back at wife’s comments. NTA

A therapist advises a couple battling postpartum anxiety and depression.

Setting boundaries and standing up for oneself, NTA wins!

Spouse’s weight comments lead to concern about degrading behavior.

Bodybuilder comments on wife’s weight gain, sparks debate.

Woman defends man’s response to wife’s weight comments. NTA.

Teasing as a love language? When does it go too far?

Standing up to weight comments: NTA, but did he go too far?

Wife expresses hurt over husband’s weight comments.

Partner’s weight comment triggers trauma, NTA for clapping back.

NTA but communication is key for a healthy marriage

Both were jerks, but apologizing can help mend the relationship.

Choosing to hurt her back won’t help rebuild the relationship.

Well-played uno reverse card, but was it too far? NTA

Supportive comment advises seeking couples counseling, NTA

Man gives wife a taste of her own medicine. NTA.

Man stands up to wife’s weight comments and is called a monster.

NTA. Mutual respect is key in a relationship. Name-calling is cruel.

NTA, but kindness goes a long way in a relationship. ❤

Empathetic commenter defends husband against body shaming wife. NTA
