Imagine having to choose between your beloved family dog and a friend going through a tough time. That’s the dilemma faced by a 32-year-old man, his wife, and their two young daughters. They live in a modest apartment, which could host another person for a short period without too much trouble. When an old friend (28m) going through a divorce asked for a place to stay, they agreed, until they learned about his severe dog allergy.
Friend’s Request for a Place to Stay

The Allergy Revelation

Family Dog Comes First

Bad-Mouthing Begins

Friends Take Sides

Cultural Differences

Local Views on Dogs

Friends’ Mixed Reactions

Some Friends Understand

Others Still Upset

Why They Wanted to Stay

Visiting Friends and Dog Discomfort

Unclean Perception

A Tough Decision: Friend or Furry Family?
This man and his family were put in a difficult position when they had to choose between their aging family dog and a friend in need of a place to stay. The friend’s severe dog allergy meant that the dog would have to go, but the family couldn’t bear to part with their beloved pet. Now, they’re facing backlash from their friend group, with some calling them heartless for choosing their dog over their friend’s well-being. However, others acknowledge the cultural differences at play, as the family is originally from a pet-friendly area in the US but now lives in a country where dogs are not as highly valued.
NTA. Friend asks OP to get rid of dog for him.

Choosing dog over allergic friend: NTA, but rehoming term sucks

Friends judge man for choosing dog over temporary guest

NTA. Former friend demands favor, gets entitled, and bullies. Dodged bullet

Choosing family over friends during tough times

NTA chooses dog over friend. Divorce reason? Astounding nerve, wow.

“NTA. Friends should support your decision. “

Defending your decision with a mic drop

NTA for choosing dog over friend with crazy expectations

Choosing family over friend

Choosing a dog over a friend? Unconditional love wins

Dodged a bullet! Choosing family dog over demanding friend

Choosing a dog over a friend? NTA, stick to your boundaries

NTA and questionable friends ♀️

NTA. Ex-friend gets the boot
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Friend in need or freeloader?

Divorced friend is entitled and selfish. Cut him off.

Choosing family dog over friend? NTA, ex-wife’s nightmare!

Dog saves the day! NTA for choosing furry friend over demanding guest

Friend chooses dog over friend, commenters agree he’s NTA

Choosing family over friend? NTA! Keep him away!

Choosing family over entitled friend. NTA.
