Imagine being in a loving relationship, planning a future with your partner and her child, only to have it all come crashing down over a disagreement about having more kids. Now, picture the child you’ve grown to love showing up at your doorstep, refusing to let go of the bond you once shared. What would you do? This is the predicament a 30-year-old man found himself in after breaking off his engagement with his girlfriend, Tara. But things took a dramatic turn when Tara’s daughter, Sasha, started showing up at his house unannounced, leading to a shocking decision that has everyone talking.
Love Blossoms Amidst Challenges
A Dream Shattered
A Broken Engagement and a Devastated Child
Unexpected Visitor
A Sit-Down Conversation ️
Moving On, Or So He Thought
A Mysterious Vandal ️
The Last Straw
Calling in the Authorities
A Shocked Mother and a Tearful Child
A Heated Exchange
A Heartrending Tale of Love, Loss, and a Desperate Decision
This story of a man’s struggle with his ex-fiancée’s daughter is a rollercoaster of emotions. After breaking off his engagement due to a disagreement about having more kids, he found himself dealing with the heartbroken child’s unannounced visits. Things took a turn for the worse when his new girlfriend’s car was vandalized, and he suspected the young girl. Fed up and blocked by his ex on all fronts, he made the drastic decision to call the cops on the child. With the mother and daughter left in tears, and the man adamant about pressing charges if the visits continue, the internet is buzzing with opinions on this complex situation. Let’s dive into the sea of diverse reactions this story has elicited… ️
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ESH. Parents struggling to handle kids. Ex blocks communication.
YTA for moving on too fast, but NTA for protecting yourself.
NTA OP, Tara’s daughter struggles with your sudden absence.
Is there more to the story? A biased account, perhaps?
NTA. Calling the police was the best option to protect yourself.
NTA: Ex lied, but rebounding so quickly raises eyebrows
NTA, protect yourself legally from potential stalker behavior.
NTA: Sasha needs professional help, her mother dropped the ball
Engaged, breakup, and dating someone new: Close call for all
NTA for calling the police, but your behavior is questionable
NTA- Ex-fiancée’s daughter vandalizes car, you called police. Justified action.
Difficult situation: NTA for calling cops on ex-fiancée’s daughter
NTA for calling the cops on disrespectful ex-fiancée’s daughter.
Curious about the reason the child visited your house?
NTA for leaving after mom’s lies; kid not OP’s problem
NTA: Call the police and CPS to protect yourself and child.
NTA. Calling the cops was necessary for insurance purposes.
Ex-fiancée’s daughter: NTA, ex is a major AH
NTA for calling the cops, but moving might be extreme
Ending a toxic relationship: NTA for calling the police
NTA: Teaching boundaries to kids
“NTA. You did the right thing calling the cops. “
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NTA. Setting boundaries with ex-fiancée’s daughter, avoiding legal trouble.
NTA. Ex lied about kids. Sticky situation. Slippery slope.
NTA for leaving ex-fiancée. She lied about having bio kids.
ESH. The comment suggests finding a balance between respecting the mother’s wishes and offering support to the daughter. The reply disagrees, emphasizing the importance of boundaries and moving on from a failed relationship.
ESH: You can’t just abandon a child, but communication is key.
Calling the cops: justified or heartless? ESH, except Sasha
NTA. Protect yourself and have a record of the situation!
Calling the cops after a breakup? Justified or heartless?
ESH – Sasha acted out due to feeling abandoned, but no obligation.
Heartbreaking situation where everyone failed to provide love and support
NTA: You did everything right, don’t let her treat you like garbage.
Is rushing to have kids a recipe for disaster?
Mom wants to cut OP out of daughter’s life.
NTA. Sasha’s actions were inappropriate and someone needed to intervene.
Ex moves on quickly, commenters debate if he’s the a**hole
NTA for calling the cops on a troubled teenager
Clearly not the a**hole
Not the a**hole. Let’s hear their side of the story!
ESH: Tara for obvious reasons, you for suddenly refusing to be in a little girl’s life when you’ve basically been a father to her for the majority of it. Also, starting a new relationship only a few DAYS after ending an engagement is definitely a**hole territory.
NTA: Tara is the a**hole in this scenario.
Engaging caption: OP is soft YTA for not considering emotional bond with Sasha
NTA for handling the situation, but YTA for moving on quickly.
NTA: Relationship conflicts and parenting issues, consequences are inevitable. ♂️
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NTA. Ex’s daughter crossed boundaries, press charges if necessary.
“YTA. You want a family so badly that you ‘had to’ start dating days after a break up. Sasha obviously loves you and saw you as her father figure for at least 1/3 of her life. Family isn’t only defined by DNA. I feel so sorry for the poor kid.”
