Imagine being caught in a whirlwind of emotions, torn between the love for your wife and the desire to protect your child. That’s exactly where our protagonist, whom we’ll call ‘Mr. Honest’, finds himself. His wife, ‘Mrs. Perfect’, wanted a baby related to him, leading them to use an egg donor. But when she expressed dissatisfaction with their daughter and wanted a ‘better’ egg donor for their next child, Mr. Honest was thrown into a moral quandary. Let’s delve into this rollercoaster of a story.
A Dream Shattered

The Search for Perfection

A Miracle Baby

A Secret Agreement

A Shocking Revelation

A Mother’s Doubts

A Desire for Change

A Broken Agreement

A Family in Crisis

A Lingering Doubt

A Family at the Crossroads: Love, Trust, and Egg Donors
In a tale that tugs at the heartstrings, Mr. Honest finds himself caught in a moral dilemma. His wife, Mrs. Perfect, is dissatisfied with their daughter and wants a ‘better’ egg donor for their next child. This revelation shatters their agreement to keep the egg donor a secret, leaving Mr. Honest wrestling with the decision to break the silence. As the tension escalates, the couple’s relationship hangs in the balance. Does honesty take precedence over a mother’s wishes? Or should the family secret remain buried? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this emotionally charged situation.
Wife’s obsession with donor’s traits causes family conflict. ♂️

“NTA for being concerned about your wife treating your daughter differently.”

NTA. Protect your family. She needs therapy.

Wife’s warped idea of children and control issues need therapy

ESH – Daughter deserves to know her genetic history, future complications.

Insightful comment on insecurities and unresolved feelings with egg donors.

ESH: A family secret unravels, leaving a daughter in the dark.

Tell her the truth! YTA if you don’t.

Avoid favoritism and consider therapy before having another child.

NTA: Wife’s cruel attitude towards daughter’s genetics sparks family drama
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Therapy first! YWBTA if you’d get another child.
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NTA: Wife needs therapy, not more kids. Family drama ensues.

Supportive comment urges therapy for wife struggling with fertility.

A family torn apart by unrealistic expectations and broken promises

ESH. Agreeing to hide donor info causes family drama and unrealistic expectations.

NTA for not wanting to repeat egg donor drama.

Confusion and potential blackmail over egg donor revelation?

NTA. Wife wants genetically engineered child. Therapy might help.

NTA. Wife’s potential favoritism and therapy concerns discussed.

ESH: Breach of trust, therapy concerns, dysfunctional parenting. ♂️

Tough situation. Wife needs therapy. Kids deserve to know. NTA.

ESH: Hiding truth, different donor, unrealistic expectations – a family torn

Wrong sub, try r/relationshipadvice for your issue

ESH. Wife wants a daughter she shares traits with. Therapy needed.
