Maid of Honor Dilemma: When Best Friends Don’t Make the Cut

We all know that weddings can be a rollercoaster of emotions, but what happens when your best friend, who you chose as your maid of honor, doesn’t even invite you to her own wedding? One heartbroken bride-to-be is left questioning her friendship and whether she should ask her maid of honor to step down. Let’s dive into the story…

The Engagement

Amy’s Excitement

No Hurt Feelings?

The Guest List Dilemma

The Facebook Revelation

The Painful Truth

Amy’s Apology

Feeling Crushed

Friendship on the Line

A Friendship Put to the Test

Our heartbroken bride-to-be is left questioning her friendship with her maid of honor, Amy, after discovering she didn’t make the cut for Amy’s wedding guest list. Despite Amy’s apologies and assurances that she’s still a close friend, the bride-to-be can’t help but feel crushed and betrayed. Now, she’s considering asking Amy to step down as maid of honor. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA. Amy lied about not inviting you to her wedding.

Weddings are tough, but it’s important to be with those you want.

Choosing your MOH based on who can get shit done

Choosing a MOH over a friend’s wedding is a dilemma.

NAH. Pandemic weddings are stressful enough as it is

Unpopular opinion: bride doesn’t owe you a wedding invite.

Friendship imbalance hurts, but objectively NAH due to pandemic.

Misjudging closeness hurts, but maybe others had her in theirs. NAH

Weddings can be tough on friendships

Wedding guest list woes: Understanding the tough decisions couples make

Have an open conversation with your friend to resolve conflict

Friend not chosen as maid of honor, NAH. Valid feelings.

Friend pulls the a**hole card after not inviting maid of honor

Weddings aren’t tit for tat, pandemic or not. NAH.

Being left out of your best friend’s wedding is heartbreaking

Friend’s wedding, friend’s choice. But OP’s feelings are valid.

NTA. Friendship should be a two-way street

Friendship isn’t always equal. NAH for not feeling as close.

Wedding invite snub is a red flag. #NTA

Heartbreaking rejection from MOH, commenter offers support and love ❤️

Empathetic comment acknowledges MOH dilemma and offers possible explanation.

NAH verdict for MOH dilemma. Friendship perspectives vary. No entitlements.

Being left out of the top 5 hurts, but ask first

Friendship boundaries respected, hurt feelings acknowledged. NAH ❤️

Navigating the complexities of friendship in wedding planning.

Wedding invite snub and lying friend. NTA depending on communication.

Consider her contributions before demoting her from Maid of Honor.

Wedding planning is tough, but MOH should be a top friend

NAH. Adult friendships are weird and fluctuate in closeness. Keep her.

Value her friendship, keep her as maid of honor ❤️

Navigating changing friendships and unrequited love in wedding planning.

Cutting out toxic friends: NTA, find a new MOH

Friendship downgrade: NTA comment on MOH selection feels relatable

Friendships evolve and change, it’s okay to prioritize current relationships

Former best friend excluded MOH from her wedding, NTA.

Being a MOH is not a competition. Cherish your friendship

Navigating friendship hierarchies in weddings can be tough.

Valuable advice on friendship and weddings, keep Amy as MOH

It’s OP’s wedding, but hope they stay friends with ex-MOH

Wedding planning during a pandemic is tough. NAH for choosing others.

Friendship can be a tricky thing NAH comment

It’s okay to be upset, but don’t lose your best friend ❤️

Choosing a Maid of Honor can be tough, but NTA.

Friend accepts MOH role, then chooses 5 friends over you. NTA.

Supportive comment reminds friend she’s still valued despite exclusion.

Removing a friend from your wedding party: petty or justified?

Different perspectives on friendship, but no a**holes here.

Be understanding of your friend’s tough decision.

A heartwarming story about friendship and loss.

Choosing a maid of honor can be tough, but friendships endure ❤️

Choosing family over best friend as MOH, bride should have communicated better. NTA

Exploring the dynamics of childhood vs college friendships ‍

Ex-MOH didn’t invite commenter to wedding despite being MOH. NTA.

Choosing a maid of honor can be tough, but punishing a friend isn’t the solution.

Friendship hurts , but hoping for a magical wedding

Choose your bridal party wisely. NTA for reciprocating.

Choosing bridesmaids based on looks is shallow and hurtful.

Friendship fallout over wedding snub; trust your gut. NTA

Being excluded hurts, but consider their perspective before judging.

Friend left out of wedding shares advice: drop her, move on

Wedding drama: Friendships and expectations don’t always match

Friend made OP MOH but didn’t invite her to own wedding. NTA

Empathetic reply to hurtful situation, encouraging words for engagement.

Choosing a Maid of Honor can be tricky. Is Amy the a**hole?

Be the bigger person and make her your MOH

One-sided friendship? NTA for removing her from your wedding

Is it worth potentially losing a friend over MOH selection?

Choosing someone else for maid of honor is justified. NTA

When your ‘best friend’ doesn’t even make you top 5 ‍♀️

NTA. MOH doesn’t value relationship. Kick her out.

Choose your MOH based on closeness, not obligation. NTA

Choose the one you want by your side on your day

Friend lies about wedding decision, called out for being TA

Friendship fears and support. You deserve better. ❤️

Friend lies about not inviting MOH, commenter says she’s AH.

Choosing a maid of honor can be tricky. NAH/YTA dilemma.

Choosing a maid of honor can be a tough decision

Choose a MOH who loves you as much as you do ❤️

Celebrate your big day with true friends #NTA

Choosing a Maid of Honor can be tough. NTA for choosing wisely.

Friendship reevaluation, but guest list freedom is important too.

NTA and a humorous take on the situation

Choosing a wedding party can be tough, but honesty is key

OP not the a**hole for cutting friend from wedding party.

NAH explains how having multiple close friends is possible and valid.