Who knew that a box of mac and cheese could stir up so much drama in a relationship? Meet our heroine (36,F) who’s been dating her boyfriend (33,M) for nine months. He’s a culinary novice, preferring instant ramen and frozen meals over homemade dishes. This foodie friction has been a source of tension between them. But when he proudly sent her a picture of his latest creation – boxed mac and cheese, her lack of praise led to a relationship rift. Let’s dive into their saucy saga.
A Taste of Tension

The Culinary Challenge

The Cooking Conundrum

The Kitchen Classroom

The Supermarket Struggle

The Pizza Problem

The Cleanup Concession

The Mac and Cheese Moment

The Silent Response

The Cheerleader Challenge

The Dining Dilemma ️

The Mommy Complex

The Mac and Cheese Meltdown: A Relationship Recipe for Disaster?
Our heroine finds herself in a culinary conundrum. Teaching her boyfriend how to cook has turned her into a 24/7 cheerleader, and she’s not thrilled about it. The final straw? His boxed mac and cheese masterpiece. While he expected praise, she served up silence. Now, she’s questioning if she’s in the wrong for not being more encouraging. But is she really at fault, or is this just a recipe for relationship disaster? Let’s see what the internet thinks about this saucy saga.
NTA, but I wish you could see the eye roll I’m giving you for thinking a 33 year old needed to be taught how to assemble a deli sandwich.

“NTA The way that you describe him…it sounds like someone talking about their child. Surely he could have figured out how to make a *sandwich* on his own. He just doesn’t want to bother. He shouldn’t get praise for doing the barest of minimums. This is textbook ‘weaponized incompetence’ “

NTA. Cooking conflict with a manipulative 33-year-old who needs hand-holding

“NTA
I’m sorry but am I reading this correct, you had to teach the man how to make a sandwich??” – Teaching cooking skills with love
A tale of culinary conflict and love, with weaponised incompetence

Dating past 30: The struggle for love and decent cooking

Cooking challenges and neurodivergence: Finding support and striking a balance

Blue Apron saved our relationship and turned my husband into a stellar cook!

NTA. Comment provides helpful perspective on cooking challenges and independence.

Mac and Cheese hero or culinary catastrophe? You decide!

Kitchen clueless at 33? Survival skills: instant meals, takeout, help!

NTA: Is he an adult or a child?

Strange vibes and confusion… something’s definitely off here.

NTA. Annoyingly dependent partner can’t adult. You’re not his parent.

Dating a man who’s more work than giving birth? NTA

Teaching him to make a sandwich? NTA, good luck!

Grown man wants praise for basic tasks. Time to adult.

Supportive coaching turns fear into confidence. YTA judgment explained.

Man-child seeks validation, but is it worth the drama?

No need for praise at 34, it’s basic adulting

Empathy and patience needed when dealing with cooking confusion

NTA, but does he have anxiety? Set boundaries on reassurance.

Dating drama at 36: NTA, but an a**hole to yourself

Cooking struggles: A soft YTA, but he’s trying his best

Support your partner! YTA for not giving simple encouragement

NTA: Judging a grown-ass man’s mac and cheese skills

Encouragement and support can go a long way in cooking

Age is just a number…and apparently so is maturity

A culinary catastrophe: a grown man unable to feed himself?

Supportive comment and reply: Encouraging progress in cooking journey

NTA. He wants a mommy to cook for him

Questioning the commenter’s choice in partner.

Kids making messy sandwiches like feral raccoons

“Lazy AF guy waits for new mommy to cave in “

NTA. Expand his cooking skills, but don’t coddle him.
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NTA – Cooking skills lacking, red flag in relationship

Dating a giant child? NTA. Sounds exhausting

NTA: Partner wants a replacement mom, not an equal partner

NTA- Appreciate his effort to learn and improve your relationship

Throw the whole man away! Culinary conflict and love

NTA. Boyfriend’s incompetence in cooking, but why draw the line?
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NTA. Are you his mom? His relationship with her matters.

Red flags galore! NTA, but is he really worth it?
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Cooking anxiety: He’s learning and making an effort
