Falling in love is a magical experience, but what happens when the couple’s desires don’t align? Our protagonist met his girlfriend five months ago, and they fell head over heels for each other. However, things took a turn when she revealed she’s asexual and doesn’t want to have s*x ever. Can love survive this revelation? Let’s dive into their story.
Love at First Sight

Patience and Understanding

First Time Troubles

The Importance of Intimacy

Asexual Revelation

Breaking Point

The Unspoken Reason

Clarifying the Situation

Uncomfortable Aftermath

Trying to Make It Work

Asexuality Confirmed

Misunderstood Intentions

Defending Himself ️

Grateful for Support

A Plea for Understanding

Love Derailed by Asexuality
Our protagonist and his girlfriend fell in love quickly, but their relationship hit a roadblock when she revealed she’s asexual. Despite his patience and understanding, he couldn’t see a future without intimacy. After much thought, he decided to break up with her, but couldn’t bring himself to admit it was because of her asexuality. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heart-wrenching situation…
Respecting boundaries and needs is key for a successful relationship

Honesty is the best policy, don’t lie about intimacy issues.

Break up if no intimacy. Rip the plaster and move on.
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Respect boundaries and don’t pressure your partner.

NTA for breaking up due to incompatible s*x needs, but YTA for pressuring and not being honest. ‘Took everything from me’ is sus

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts

NTA for wanting to break up, YTA for how you handled it

Reflect on boundaries and mutual needs for a graceful breakup

Coaxing someone into s*x is never okay

Respecting boundaries is key, YTA for pressuring her.

A witty reply to a bizarre comment

Pressuring someone into s*x is not okay. YTA.

Pressuring for s*x after 5 months? YTA

Did he pressure her for s*x? The importance of consent

Navigating consent and boundaries in relationships

Accusations of predatory behavior and entitlement. NTA but TAH.

Pressuring someone to break their boundaries is never okay, YTA

Begging for s*x and not respecting boundaries? YTA

Pressuring for s*x is not okay, find other ways to connect

YTA for lying about breakup, NTA for wanting intimacy.

Learn about consent and respect boundaries to avoid being TA

NTA for wanting intimacy but YTA for coercion and lying

Pressuring partner for s*x doesn’t make you less of an a**hole.

User empathizes with the girl and hopes she gets therapy

User calls out OP for pressuring girlfriend into s*x. YTA.

User calls out OP for coercing ex-girlfriend into s*x.

Pressuring someone into s*x is NOT being understanding

Pushing for s*x after a ‘no’ is not okay

Honesty is key in ending a relationship ❤️

Accusations of pressuring and cowardice lead to YTA judgement.

Virginity taken through pressure, bad in bed, YTA. Brutal.

User expresses concern over partner’s intentions and honesty

Respect boundaries, don’t push for s*x. YTA

Virgin fetish? Disrespecting boundaries? YTA, never speak to her again

Consent is key, don’t pressure your partner into s*x. YTA

Breaking up is okay, don’t beg for it

A scathing comment with no mercy

User accuses OP of pressuring and leaving after s*x

Pressuring someone into s*x and wanting more afterwards? YTA

User accused of pressuring partner for s*x, deemed YTA.

OP’s insensitive attitude towards partner’s first time

Pushing for intimacy, YTA should have broken up earlier

YTA for manipulating her into sleeping with you

Different needs, different paths. Love isn’t everything

NTA called out for manipulating and dumping partner for petty reason

S*x is not a commodity, it’s a mutual expression of love ❤️

Harsh judgement given with no explanation. Seek help, YTA.

S*x or love, what’s worth more? A debate ensues

User calls out OP for pressuring partner into s*x

Pressuring someone into s*x is not consent. YTA.
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Pressuring someone into s*x and dumping them? Total scumbag

YTA tries to guilt trip for s*x, gets called out

YTA for pressuring her, NTA for walking away. Incompatibility issues.

Pressure for s*x led to a dead end

A comment on right-wing pressure on women’s sexuality.

Sexual compatibility issues lead to breakup and disagreement.
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NTA for breaking up, but YTA for attitude towards s*x

Moving too fast? Commenter applauds breakup, wishes healing journey

Failed guilt trip leads to no more s*x. YTA ♂️

User accuses man of coercing virgin into s*x, calls him a creep
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Pressuring someone into s*x is never okay. YTA.

Ending a relationship = NTA, but YTA for past actions ♀️

Pressuring partner for s*x and refusing to accept asexuality? YTA.

Defensive comment receives no sympathy from replies

Navigating sexual incompatibility in relationships

Harsh criticism for someone who pressured and hurt their partner.

Pressuring partner for s*x and making it a stipulation is wrong

Pressuring someone into s*x then dumping them? YTA indeed

Lying about low libido and pressuring traumatized partner = YTA

Virginity and s*x compatibility in relationships ♂️

Breaking up over sexual intimacy is valid, but don’t be disrespectful
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User pressures virgin girlfriend into s*x, regrets it later. YTA.

User calls out OP for manipulative behavior towards ex-girlfriend.

Dating a virgin requires patience, not pressure. YTA.

Pressuring partner into s*x can lead to bad experiences

No means no. YTA for pressuring her into s*x

Dating advice gone wrong: YTA for making her trauma worse.

Opinion rejected and OP called out for immature behavior

Last Updated on February 27, 2024 by Diply Social Team