When love blossoms, it’s all roses and rainbows, until the practicalities of life kick in. Meet our lovebirds, ‘Techie Beau’ and ‘Service Sweetie’, both 25, who have been together for six months. Their New Year’s resolution? Moving in together. But, as they start discussing the logistics, a financial conundrum presents itself. With Service Sweetie out of work due to the pandemic and Techie Beau comfortably working from home, the question arises: Who should pay more rent? Let’s dive into their story… ️♀️
New Year, New Resolutions

Pandemic Woes & Home Sweet Home

The Great Apartment Debate

Man Cave or Shared Space?

The Money Talk

Equal Partnership or Financial Fairness? ♀️

The Culinary Conundrum

The Rent Ratio Dilemma

A Plethora of Perspectives

The Timeline Clarification ️

The Autism Angle

Open Communication: The Relationship Lifeline ️❤️

Love, Money, and the Great Rent Debate
In the world of love and shared living spaces, our couple, ‘Techie Beau’ and ‘Service Sweetie’, find themselves at a crossroads. With the decision to move in together, they face the age-old question of financial responsibility in a relationship. While Techie Beau believes in an equal 50/50 split, Service Sweetie, currently unemployed due to the pandemic, argues for a more income-based approach. The debate intensifies when the ‘man cave’ enters the equation. Is a bigger kitchen for shared meals equivalent to a personal man cave? The internet has been buzzing with opinions on this intriguing situation. Let’s see what the top responses have to say…
“If he gets his own room, he should pay more rent.”

NTA. Unequal partnership, man cave, and kitchen argument.

NTA: Boyfriend wants equal rent but unequal personal space

“NTA. The kitchen is a functional space, not a personal area for you to relax . He’ll be using that space for the function it was designed for as well.”

NTA. Unequal living arrangements. Kitchen dispute sparks fiery comeback.

Commenter criticizes outdated gender roles, sparks a historical debate.

NTA: Cheap, inconsiderate guy. Think twice about this relationship.

Fair and logical: splitting rent based on income percentage. NTA.
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Cooking vs. Man Cave: Who Should Pay More Rent?

Don’t become his live-in maid. He’s taking advantage. NTA.

NTA suggests proportional split of rent based on income.

NTA. His unequal contribution shows where you stand in his priorities.

Escape the a**hole! Find someone who treats you better

Sexism in the kitchen vs. man cave debate
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NTA: Equality isn’t always 50/50. Stinks of misogyny here tbh.

NTA. Discussing finances in a new relationship can be tricky
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NTA. Fair rent split based on income. Gender equality questioned. Beware rushing.

Woman deserves equal space and equal payment.

Fair share: If he wants exclusive space, he should foot bill

NTA: He wants you to pay extra for his man cave? ♀️

NTA: This guy sounds awful, tell him to rent it himself

Fairness matters! Splitting rent equally is crucial for a harmonious relationship!

“NTA. An ‘equal’ partnership is not just about how bills get paid. “
