Imagine being friends with someone for 20 years, sharing life’s ups and downs, and then witnessing a family drama unfold that would leave you questioning your own morals. This is the story of a friend caught in the middle of a family feud that’s been brewing for over a decade. A father, his estranged daughter, and a heartbreaking phone call that could change everything… or nothing at all.
A Family Torn Apart

A Daughter’s Plea for Unity

A Father’s Firm Stand

A Daughter’s Rebellion

A Broken Bond

A Father’s Desperate Attempts

A Wedding without Dad

A Heartbreaking Phone Call

A Father’s Unyielding Stance

A Friend’s Dilemma

A Father’s Heartache, A Daughter’s Regret – And A Friend Caught in the Middle
In a tale that tugs at the heartstrings, a father stands his ground, refusing to reconcile with his estranged daughter who cut him off years ago. Now, she’s back, her life in turmoil, seeking solace and forgiveness from the man she once blamed for her family’s downfall. But this dad isn’t ready to risk his heart again. As his friend, I stand by his side, despite the storm of criticism from family and friends. Even my own wife thinks I’m in the wrong! But is it really my place to interfere? Or should I let this father-daughter duo figure it out on their own? Let’s see what the internet has to say…
Stay out of it and focus on couples counseling.

NTA: Let your friend make his own decision, be there for him

Heartbreaking reunion: Dad’s fear and family’s insensitivity cause tension.

Supportive friend offers non-judgmental support during a difficult decision.

NTA: Friend’s choice, wife’s silent treatment = a**hole move

NTA. Friend shouldn’t be forced to reconcile. Agreed.

NTA daughter faces consequences, learns empathy too late

Husband stands up for friend, wife’s reaction causes family fallout

Supportive friend navigates delicate family situation – tough choices ahead!

NTA. Daughter reaches out to father after experiencing similar pain. Complicated.

Supportive friend encourages neutrality, but faces marital strain.

NTA. Daughter’s selfishness comes back to haunt her. Be cautious.

NTA. 2nd daughter’s ‘aha’ moment may lead to more drama

NTA. Demand communication from your partner.

NTA. Dad deserves autonomy in his relationship with his daughter.

NTA. Sad situation. His decision. Therapy? Agreed.

NTA, wife’s reaction is concerning. Support your friend’s decision.

Engaging debate on whether to reconcile with long-lost daughter.

NTA, wife’s reaction causing tension. Communication needed to resolve issues.

Supportive friend encourages independent decision-making.

Stay out of the drama to avoid double blame.

Mixed feelings about daughter’s apology, seeking sympathy or remorse?

NTA, friend’s issue. Daughter reached out only when hurt.

Supporting a friend through a difficult time

Friend’s daughter returns seeking support, but is it justified? NTA.

Suggest a heartfelt letter to mend their relationship.

NTA but tread carefully, your opinion could strain your relationship

Daughter’s past actions have consequences, now she must face them.

Hatred doesn’t appear out of nowhere. Did her mom influence?

NTA. Wife’s disregard for mental health is a major red flag.

Supporting friend’s decision to reconcile with long-lost daughter. NTA

NTA: Dad’s not obligated to help reconcile daughter and friend
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NTA advises #2 to reconcile with cheating husband. Easy, right?

Commenter overwhelmed by number of comments, ready to reply!

NTA. Daughter’s chance blown, risky for OP. No extreme actions.

“NTA. Let your friend decide, not everyone-and-their-(cheating)mothers. ♂️”

NTA, daughter’s entitlement sparks revenge fantasies. Drama ensues!

Daughter’s disrespect shocks everyone. NTA deserves respect

Supporting friend’s decision in estranged daughter situation. No influence needed.

Shocking twist: Daughter’s karma teaches her a valuable lesson!

Stay out of it, drop a hint, and avoid the drama!

Dad’s shocking reaction to long-lost daughter’s return!

Supportive friend offers advice in tough situation. Empathy and understanding.

Supporting a friend’s decision to set boundaries with his daughter
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NTA, but boundaries are important. Be a supportive friend
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Kids aren’t excused from treating parents poorly. Emotional maturity matters.

NTA – Dad’s reaction shocks everyone!

Suspicious wife’s reaction sparks doubt and hurt in OP

Dad’s shocking reaction to long-lost daughter – NTA!

Not the a**hole? Tell me more!

Curious about the mother’s cheating? Here’s the shocking backstory!

Dad’s tough love – she can’t just snap her fingers!

NTA. Dad needs time to process emotions. Be supportive friend

NTA: Friends should support, not pressure. Mental health matters!

Supportive friend navigating complex emotions; wife’s feelings need discussion.

Daughter’s mistake, her responsibility. Dad’s reaction surprises everyone!

NTA – Give him time to process, it’s not a TV show!
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