Five years into a relationship, one woman found herself at a crossroads between her love for her boyfriend and her desire for a tattoo. Her boyfriend, a self-proclaimed anti-tattooist, had made it clear from the start that he wasn’t a fan of tattoos. But when an opportunity for a matching tattoo with her childhood best friend presented itself, she was torn. This is a story of love, friendship, and a quarter-sized tattoo that brought about a whirlwind of emotions.
The Tattoo-Less Beginning ️

The Inked Proposal ️

The Foot Fetish Factor

The Forbidden Tattoo ️

Friend or Foe?

The Tattoo Rebellion ️

The Inked Decision ️

The Quarter-Sized Rebellion ️

The Guilty Morning After ️

The Discovery and the Fallout

The Silent Treatment

The Frosty Aftermath ❄️

The Foot Fetish Fallout

Ink or Love: The Tattoo That Tore Them Apart ️
In a twist of events, a woman’s decision to get a tattoo despite her boyfriend’s disapproval, led to a relationship crisis. The boyfriend, a foot fetishist, found himself unable to look at or touch her feet anymore. The tattoo, a symbol of rebellion and independence, became a source of regret and guilt. Their relationship has been on thin ice ever since, with the woman questioning if she was wrong to assert her autonomy over her body. Let’s see what the world thinks of this inked dilemma.
“ESH: Relationship drama over a spite tattoo and broken promises.”

ESH: Relationship drama over a forbidden tattoo and differing expectations

ESH for being controlling and naive, causing relationship drama

INFO: Mixed feelings about the tattoo

Tattoo drama: ESH, he warned against it, you rebelled and lied.

“YTA- You knew his preference but still played a powerplay.”

Engaging in a hypothetical scenario: controlling partners and tattoos

ESH but very close YTA. He said no tattoos

YTA: Tattoo caused relationship drama and physical attraction issues

YTA for ignoring his feelings on tattoos. Consideration is key.

Esh, but you are more AH than him.
He hates tattoos and has a foot fetish. You got a tattoo behind his back. In his eyes, you ruined one of his favorite body parts of yours.

Debate over deal breakers and fetishes gets hilariously messy

NTA gets tattoo against partner’s wishes, sparks relationship drama

“NTA. Conversation, not a vote. Dude needs to grow up.”

Admitting drunken tattoo, OP earns props and support

Tattoo mishap ruins intimate relationship. YTA! ♀️

ESH: Drama over tattoo reveals immaturity and spiteful actions

“Woman’s tattoo sparks relationship drama. Reddit deems her the a**hole.”

Typing without seeing red flags? Good luck!

“YTA. Boundaries and respect are important in a relationship. “
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ESH for getting a tattoo against your boyfriend’s wishes

“YTA for getting a tattoo without considering your partner’s feelings.”

INFO – Tattoo vs Relationship: Who holds the power?

“YTA for getting the tattoo out of spite “

ESH: Tattoo sparks drama as couple clashes over dealbreaker

Relationship drama: Body autonomy vs. deal breakers

OP’s tattoo caused relationship drama. ESH for dragging it out.

ESH. Tattoo causes drama in relationship. Consequences for both.

ESH. He sucks more by far. Getting it done out of spite was childish. ♀️

ESH, tattoo on feet caused relationship drama. Butterfly tattoo details?

Stand up for yourself! Don’t let anyone control your choices

YTA for getting a tattoo your boyfriend clearly disliked

Unhealthy dynamic: ESH for tattoo revenge, but can’t control each other ♀️

Tattoo choice leads to relationship drama. ESH and 5 years wasted.

Toxic relationship: Zero respect, it’s time to move on.

Tattoo trouble: YTA for breaking relationship premise.

AITA nerds and their obsession with blaming men.

Feet massage and tattoo drama, who’s the real a-hole?

Commenter warns woman about consequences of her actions.

YTA: Communication is key in relationships

Tattoo placement causes drama and keeps partner away for months

ESH: Relationship drama over tattoos and bodily autonomy

NTA: Don’t let him control your body, find someone better!

A tattoo sparks drama as both sides act immaturely

E S H, but OP has the right to do what she wants

Everyone sucks here. Drama unfolds over a tattoo ️

Tattoo drama: Asshole issues, autonomy clash, and uncertain future

OP asserts autonomy over their body despite partner’s fetish. NTA

NAH. Open communication is key in relationships
