We’ve all had our fair share of arguments with our partners, but this one takes the cake. Our protagonist was already dealing with her brother’s illness, juggling work, home, and family responsibilities. But when her brother tragically passed away, she needed her husband’s support more than ever. Unfortunately, his reaction to the devastating news was far from what she expected.
Brother’s Illness Takes a Toll

Husband’s Unusual Communication Method

Texting Takes Over Their Relationship

Feeling Awful and Unsupported

Tragic News Arrives

Husband’s Unbelievable Reaction

Texting ‘I’m Sorry’ Instead of Speaking

Emotions Boil Over

Husband Finally Speaks Up ️

Apologies and Escaping the Situation

Ignoring His Calls and Texts

A Heartbreaking Tale of Miscommunication
In this heart-wrenching story, our protagonist is left feeling abandoned and unsupported by her husband during one of the most difficult times in her life. His insistence on communicating through text messages, even after receiving the tragic news of her brother’s passing, leaves her feeling even more isolated and hurt. Although her husband eventually apologizes and tries to make amends, the damage is done. It’s a stark reminder of the importance of communication and empathy in a relationship. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA comment suggests divorce after husband’s lack of support during tragedy.

Husband’s heartless behavior towards wife after brother’s death. NTA.

Supportive commenters sympathize with OP’s difficult situation.

Husband’s immature and manipulative behavior after wife’s tragedy. NTA

Husband’s lack of support during wife’s crisis leads to divorce

Husband’s cold reaction to wife’s tragic news sparks outrage. NTA.

Divorce-worthy reaction to tragic news

Chores or communication? The real issue behind the argument.

Husband’s lack of empathy during wife’s tragedy. NTA.
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Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests therapy for husband.

NTA. Commenters agree husband’s behavior is self-centered and cruel

Couples counseling could help husband communicate better. NTA.

Commenter suggests leaving husband due to lack of empathy

Spouse’s pride causes insensitivity towards wife’s tragedy

Commenter calls out husband’s lack of empathy, urges reflection.
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Insensitive husband chooses silence over comforting grieving wife

Spouse’s lack of support during tragedy is unacceptable
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Commenter sympathizes with wife, condemns husband’s actions

Husband’s insensitive reaction to wife’s bereavement sparks INFO inquiry

Husband’s insensitive reaction to wife’s loss. NTA.

Commenter questions husband’s sociopathy, advises divorce.

Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out husband’s behavior

Narcissistic husband punishes wife, commenter advises to run. NTA
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Husband’s silent treatment is emotional abuse. Get therapy or leave.

Insensitive husband gets called out for terrible behavior

Husband prioritized his feelings over supporting wife during tragedy

Husband’s extreme reaction causes fear for future #NTA

Husband’s behavior before and after brother’s death criticized

Heartbreaking loss, but the husband’s reaction is unforgivable. NTA

NTA advises divorce or apology after tragic news revelation

Communication breakdown during tragedy, husband lacked empathy. NTA

Mature response to immature behavior

Age is just a number, but empathy is priceless. NTA

Husband’s behavior called out by commenter with fiery language

Heartbreaking loss reveals husband’s true feelings

Focus on your son, not MIL’s child. NTA

Empathetic comment acknowledges OP’s loss and calls out husband’s behavior

Lack of empathy from partner during tragedy is evil

Comment section in disbelief over husband’s behavior

Commenter questions context, criticizes husband’s response as cold

Emotionally abusive husband called out in NTA comment.

Husband’s cruel mind games and involving child. NTA.
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Communication issues? Commenter questions OP’s side of the story.

Spouse’s support during tough times is what marriage is about ❤️

Gigantic narcissistic child husband, NTA for considering divorce.

Divorce his nasty a**. Not a loving partner.

Compassionate response to grieving wife’s justified outburst

NTA. Silent treatment is emotional abuse. Husband is gaslighting you.

Heartbroken comment empathizes with wife’s tragic news and husband’s coldness

Emotional abuse is unacceptable. Seek legal help.

Last Updated on June 20, 2023 by Diply Social Team