Family drama can be a real headache, but this story takes it to a whole new level! Our storyteller’s mom got married without even telling him or inviting him to the wedding. The reason? His wife is vegan, and mom didn’t want to cater to her dietary needs. But things took a turn for the worse when the wife started spreading rumors about the new husband being abusive. Guess what? The new hubby is a top lawyer and sued the couple for defamation. Now, our storyteller thinks his wife should pay for the lawsuit with her own spending money. Let’s dive into the details!
Mom’s Surprise Wedding
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The Uninvited Guests
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The Vegan Excuse
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Wife’s Anger and Sister’s Concern
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Running with the Story ♀️
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Spreading Accusations
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Top Lawyer Strikes Back ⚖️
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Courtroom Drama ️
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Financial Fallout
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Husband’s Solution
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Who Should Pay for the Lawsuit? ♂️
This family drama has escalated to a full-blown legal battle! After the wife spread rumors about her mother-in-law’s new husband being abusive, he sued the couple for defamation. Now, our storyteller thinks his wife should pay for the lawsuit with her own spending money, since he tried to stop her from making the accusations. However, she believes they should handle it as a team. Let’s see what the internet thinks about this sticky situation… ️♀️
User calls out husband for not stopping wife’s defamatory actions.

Wife’s mistake caused financial troubles, husband NTA for suing.

Reader calls for more context in disturbing defamation lawsuit.

Unusual situation, can’t judge without knowing more.

NTA commenter calls out wife’s immaturity and supports husband’s stance.

NTA agrees, wife’s false accusation and refusal to apologize is terrible

Is the wife addicted to social media and what’s the cost?

NTA’s spouse’s vindictive actions jeopardized their career and relationship

Spouse’s defamatory actions prove they’re dangerous. NTA.

Missing details make it hard to judge.

Curious about the mother’s issue, but NTA in situation.

OP’s wife might not be the victim here. ESH.

User questions husband’s request for wife to pay defamation lawsuit fees.
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Unpacking the details of the defamation case
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NTA commenter defends husband’s decision, uses strong language.

No proof, no case: Husband’s lawsuit against wife seems baseless

Taking responsibility for actions, but lawsuit may affect both parties.

Husband sued wife for defamation, commenter supports him. NTA
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Wife spread a rumor out of spite, husband not responsible. NTA.
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Spreading rumors has consequences. NTA for holding her accountable.

NTA commenter suggests leaving wife after defamation lawsuit.

Spouse not responsible for partner’s illegal actions. NTA.

Wife defamed husband’s stepfather, NTA suggests wife pays lawsuit fully

Curious commenter questions legitimacy of lawsuit and motives.

Red flag alert! It might be time to run.

When family drama turns into a legal battle

Wife’s loose lips sink her wallet. Aunt may have proof

Teamwork when it’s convenient? NTA stands firm

You’re not responsible for your wife’s defamation lawsuit. NTA

Wife’s defamation lawsuit costs husband relationship with mother

Suggesting to confront family and deny wife’s claims.

Wife made up rumors, she pays the bill. NTA

Couple’s lack of communication leads to costly lawsuit ♂️

Choosing not to help pay may have consequences. NTA.

Witty comment about deformation lawsuit and agreement with NTA.

Divorce lawyer recommended, don’t trust vindictive wife. Get counseling.

Wife’s actions result in ‘a*****e tax’, husband not at fault

Curious comment suggests there’s more to the story

Toxic wife accused of defamation, not the a****e husband
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Fiery reply defends husband, condemns wife’s actions
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User calls out husband for backing wife’s selfish anger.

Wife’s false abuse claims could cost husband in divorce settlement
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Pay up or prepare for a divorce

Suspicious comment accuses wife of defamation, demands payment

Toxic wife causes family drama, husband avoids responsibility. ESH

Understanding the legal requirements for defamation lawsuits
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Doubting the authenticity of the husband’s story

Consult an attorney to see if divorce is necessary

Curious about the details of the defamation lawsuit

Supportive comment suggests letting wife deal with consequences alone.

A harsh but fair comment. Bankruptcy may be an option.

Reconciliation over money? NTA but deeper issues at play.
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Husband not responsible for wife’s defamation lawsuit. NTA.

Spousal support doesn’t extend to defamation lawsuits. NTA.

No sympathy for wife in defamation lawsuit. NTA.

Support for husband’s lawsuit against vindictive wife.

NTA comment calls out wife’s behavior and questions loyalty.

NTA calls out wife’s pettiness in defamation lawsuit.

Disturbing behavior, better to cut off contact

Marriage isn’t a free pass for defamation. NTA.

Supporting accountability, NTA suggests consequences for defamation lawsuit.

Marriage means support, but this situation is ridiculous

No team, double standard, entitled a**hole. NTA wins.

Marriage advice with a hint of cynicism. ESH.
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Defamation is serious. NTA. Wife should pay for lawsuit

NTA. Wife’s behavior caused the issue, not your mother’s actions.

Wife’s defamation lawsuit: husband not the a**hole for wanting her to pay

Sarcastic NTA comment highlights entitlement and victim mentality

Marriage means being a team, consequences affect both parties.

Standing up for oneself, even against a spouse.

User calls out toxic behavior of wife in defamation lawsuit.

NTA but it might be time to reflect on the relationship

Last Updated on February 13, 2024 by Diply Social Team