We all know that love and friendship can sometimes clash, but what happens when you’re forced to choose between your spouse and your best friend? In this tale of love, loyalty, and heartache, one woman finds herself in the middle of a friendship showdown.
Six Years of Marital Bliss
New State, New Life
Friendship Struggles
Enter Amelia, the New BFF
Priorities: Husband First
Cancelled Plans and Rescheduling
The Haunted Attraction Plan
A Sudden Change of Plans
Rescheduling with Amelia… Again ️
Amelia’s Breaking Point
Husband Over Friends, No Exceptions
Amelia’s Heartfelt Response
Husband’s Guilt
The Ultimate Question
Love vs. Friendship: The Ultimate Dilemma
So, our protagonist finds herself in a predicament: choosing between her husband and her best friend, Amelia. After cancelling plans with Amelia multiple times in favor of her husband, Amelia finally reaches her breaking point. Our protagonist firmly believes that her husband should always come first, but is she right? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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“YTA it’s not ‘putting your husband second’ to honor your commitments. You and Amelia had planned this for weeks and you’re running out of chances to do this seasonal activity. You let your friend down and she’s right. You don’t want a friend, you just want an option for when your husband is busy.”
“YTA. Stop canceling plans and valuing your husband over friendships. “
Married but not self-married, spouse comes first
“You’re not putting your husband first, you’re being an unreliable flake.”
“YTA she sounds understanding but there’s a difference between choosing…”
“YTA. Don’t be a flake. You need your husband.”
“YTA – You’re treating your single friend like she’s absolutely nothing to you. Good on your friend for putting her foot down, honestly.”
Does the husband know about the friend being blown off?
Friend calls out OP for being unreliable.
Commitment matters, dropping plans for spouse is poor behavior. YTA.
YTA: Awful friend, good on Amelia for calling you out.
YTA: Friend calls out OP for breaking promises, predicts loneliness
“YTA. Putting unrealistic parameters on friendship. Not healthy for either.”
Being a flaky friend won’t win you any popularity points
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YTA. No friends? Maybe it’s time for some self-reflection.
Prioritizing spouse over friends? YTA, but find balance!
YTA for blowing off plans and being rude.
“YTA. Sounds like you have no friends because you’re awful.”
YTA for prioritizing husband over friend. Be more considerate.
YTA for flaking on your friend. Friendship over husband?
Friends vs. Husband: Manipulation, Flaking, and Broken Commitments
YTA for bailing on your friend, but understandable priorities.
Commitment matters! Don’t be a flakey friend.
“YTA, prioritize your spouse over friends. Don’t make empty plans.”
Entitled commenter calls out OP for repeatedly ditching plans!
YTA. Breaking social norms? You’re in for a showdown!
