Housemate’s Dad Needs a Home, But at What Cost?

We all know that living with housemates can be a mixed bag of experiences. But what happens when one of them asks you to house their elderly father, who, according to them, barely takes care of himself and spends his day eating? This is the dilemma faced by our protagonist, who we’ll call ‘Reluctant Samaritan’. Let’s dive into this rollercoaster of a story, where the stakes are high and the emotions even higher.

A Housemate’s Plea

The Search Begins ️‍♂️

The Cost of Living

The Big Ask

The Reluctant No ‍♀️

Pushing Boundaries

The Uncomfortable Truth

The Clock is Ticking ⏰

The Guilt Trip

The Unexpected Twist

The Final Straw

A Housemate’s Dilemma: Compassion or Comfort?

So, there you have it. The Reluctant Samaritan, caught in a whirlwind of guilt, discomfort, and the looming threat of a stranger invading her home. She’s torn between compassion for an elderly man in need and the sanctity of her own space. The housemate, H, seems desperate, but also unwilling to make necessary sacrifices. The tension is palpable and the stakes are high. Let’s see how the internet reacts to this rollercoaster of a story…

NTA, stand your ground and protect yourself from an entitled j**k

NTA: OP suggests asking H to move out and find a new housemate. OP went above and beyond by researching alternatives. H disrespected OP by pestering for a change of heart. Find someone else to pay rent.

NTA, not your responsibility. Stand your ground.

“NTA and I agree with HappyMerry11. Start the eviction process, as that might actually help him kick into gear. He’ll be forced to look for a place that can reasonably accommodate them both.”

NTA. Setting boundaries with a dependent housemate.

NTA. Find a social service agency to help. S****y situation.

NTA. Don’t let them push you, stand your ground!

NTA. Taking on two adult dependents is a lot. ‍♂️

NTA. Setting boundaries with housemate’s dad. Family should help.

Partner’s friend overstepping boundaries, needs to take responsibility

NTA suggests dropping H off at a homeless shelter with his dad!

“NTA. He’s pressuring you and your MIL, but has a whole girlfriend? “

“NTA. Dad’s begging and not taking initiative. You’re not responsible.”

NTA. Yoda approves of your wise advice, hahaha!

NTA for refusing and hilarious response to outrageous request!

Time to part ways? NTA seeks advice on eviction process.

NTA, but can they afford a cheaper place?

Worried about dad moving in and claiming squatters rights?

“NTA, but be clear with him. His dad is his responsibility.”

NTA, red flags galore! Dad’s a freeloader, protect your home!

NTA. Set boundaries and evict him. Don’t let him take advantage.

Helping housemate’s dad find a home: NTA, but gave up

Mind blown! Age assumptions shattered. Hilarious teen-like behavior

Roommate’s family leeches off kindness, causing inconvenience and manipulation.

“NTA. Your situation is getting messier by the day. “

NTA, kick H out! He’s manipulating you with his father’s death

NTA. H has options, but wants the cheapest and easiest.

Commenter questions how someone can be so dependent on others.

Don’t be fooled! Avoid becoming a**hole’s personal hotel.

Kick him out or his dad will show up

Time for H to find a new place to live. NTA.

NTA. Your housemate’s dad is not your responsibility.

Beware of sneaky dad moving in! Protect your space!

Curious about the mysterious housemate’s dad? Find out the juicy details!

NTA suspects H is lying about supporting his dad, potential eviction.

Time to evict H? NTA thinks so!

NTA. Find another place for H and his dad.

Tenant’s dad needs a home, but at what cost?

Evicting H? NTA, but is it worth the fallout?

Evicting H: The Drama Continues!

NTA, set boundaries with H and address the freeloading situation.

NTA – Don’t let H manipulate you! Set boundaries and say no!

NTA dealing with pushy housemate’s dad, stand your ground

NTA. Get H out! His dad can move in with girlfriend

Roommate drama: NTA, but is it time to part ways?

NTA considers evicting H. to prevent unwanted houseguest.

Trust your gut! Don’t explain, just trust yourself.

NTA: Get ready for a never-ending houseguest situation.

NTA. Time to evict this problematic tenant!

Not the a**hole for refusing to let dad move in.

NTA. Stand your ground and protect your home.

NTA – Tough love for a housemate’s entitled requests.

NTA – No obligation to house dad, set boundaries.

Housemate expects free housing for his dad. Time to evict.

NTA. Set boundaries! Don’t let his dad overstay his welcome!

“NTA. Your roommates dad is not your problem. Don’t cave in.”

NTA, find a solution without sacrificing your own comfort.

A heartwarming suggestion for a family’s housing dilemma!

Time for a new housemate, but what about H’s dad?

NTA, but eviction risk if he moves his dad in.

NTA. Kick his a** out and breathe easier.

Trust your instincts. You’re not the a**hole.

Roommate’s refusal to find housing causes tension and financial strain.

NTA – H’s priorities are all mixed up!

OP: NTA. Caring for elderly is like having a small child ‍♀️. Roommate needs to act proactively

Worried about housemate’s dad moving in? You’re not alone.

You’re not the a**hole, but what’s the cost of helping?

NTA: Set boundaries to avoid enabling lazy behavior. Stand up!

Living with a stranger is uncomfortable and time for new roommate.

“NTA. Be firm with housemate about not moving in dad. “

Last Updated on July 24, 2023 by Diply Social Team