Picture this: you’re a new mom, and you’ve got it all. The perfect baby, the perfect job, and the perfect life. You’ve managed to balance motherhood and your social life seamlessly, thanks to a little help from your au-pair. But then, your friend, another new mom, lashes out at you. She’s exhausted, overwhelmed, and feels left out of the group’s social activities. She accuses you of painting a false picture of motherhood to your friends. Is she right? Or is she just letting her exhaustion cloud her judgment? Let’s dive into this mom-drama and find out.
The Mom Squad: A Tale of Two Mothers

The Glitz and Grit of Motherhood

The Great Divide: Financial Security

The Balancing Act: Motherhood and Me-Time ♀️

Living the High Life: Gym, Brunch, and Clubbing ️♀️

The Exhausted Mom vs. The Social Butterfly

The Social Media Sting

The Clash of Expectations

The Accusation: Exclusion or Drama?

The Confrontation: A False Picture of Motherhood? ️

The Retort: Entitlement or Misunderstanding?

The Aftermath: Self-Doubt and Reflection ️

The Verdict: Is She Guilty of Distorting Motherhood? ⚖️
In the end, our high-flying mom is left pondering over her actions. Did she really give her friends a false idea of what being a mom is like? Or is her friend D just too overwhelmed with her own situation to see things clearly? The conflict has left a rift in their friendship, and the rest of the group is caught in the middle. Is it fair for D to feel excluded? Or is it just a case of different strokes for different folks? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this intriguing mom-drama. ️♀️
NTA. Mom faces backlash for expecting child-free group to revolve around her.

Commenter defends OP’s actions, suggests mother is overwhelmed and blaming others.

NTA: Embrace your success and don’t let envy bring you down!

NTA- Reality check for entitled friend upset about motherhood portrayal

New mom feels left out and lashes out at friends. NAH.

NTA. Embrace your high-flying lifestyle and ignore the haters!

Living your best life without excluding your mom friend

Mom maintains social life while balancing motherhood.

Commenter empathizes with frustrated mom, suggests postpartum depression as cause.

NTA for standing up to a judgmental friend.

Engaging comment defends mom’s choices and dismisses friend’s criticism.

“OP’s use of an au pair raises concerns about their parenting.”

“NTA. No need to apologize for living your best life! “

Is the high-flying mom exploiting her au pair?

Friend faces backlash for expecting friends to change for motherhood.

Jealous friend blames high-flying mom for changing friend group dynamics.
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NTA: Don’t let jealousy bring you down! Embrace your blessings

Supportive single mom defends working friend with nanny.

Jealous new parent accuses high-flying mom of seeking special treatment. NTA

Mom of 5 defends herself against friends’ backlash.

NTA, showing different experiences of motherhood. Work, kids, marriage priorities.

Mom faces backlash for painting false picture of motherhood

NTA: Friend expects group to accommodate her, not compromising on activities.

Mixed feelings about mom’s privilege and friends’ lack of consideration.

Privileged mom faces backlash for painting unrealistic picture of motherhood

NTA, but friends think she’s painting an unrealistic picture of motherhood

Lucky mom faces envy from friends for her high-flying lifestyle!

Supportive friend defends parenting choices and child-free gatherings.

NTA. Harsh reply, but why not leave kid with husband?

Friend’s jealousy leads to resentment. ESH for scolding her.

NTA defends high-flying mom against false impression accusations.

YTA for overworking the Au pair, according to comment

Supportive comment defends friend’s struggle with motherhood.

NTA: The struggle of making motherhood look easy

Mom’s childcare choices spark debate about Au Pair responsibilities

Straddling the line between NTA and ATA, friends’ unrealistic expectations

NTA. Sacrifice is part of parenthood, enjoy the blessings instead!

NTA. Enjoying the fruits of your labor

Mom defends herself against friends’ accusations of exclusion.

Skeptical commenter questions high-flying mom’s breastfeeding and au pair

Not the a**hole for living her best mom life!

NTA: Mom deserves time for herself, but not at others’ expense.

NTA – Keep shining! Don’t let jealousy dim your light.

NTA! You stood up for yourself and set boundaries.

Mom carefully chose partner, values life outside motherhood. NTA!

NTA – Living your life, don’t let her negativity bring you down!

Mom defends herself against judgmental friends for wanting freedom

Mom gets support for her choices. No a**holes here.

NTA. Different situations, different expectations.

Mom faces backlash for going out without the kid.

NTA for choosing to have a kid

Supportive comment about different financial situations and the harsh price.

Friend’s resentment towards the commenter for having a girls night out.

Mom gets support for not being the a**hole in situation

NTA. Jealous friend criticizes high-flying mom, but she’s just exhausted

NTA: Parenting takes teamwork, not just financial resources.

NTA: Financially aware mom faces backlash for her life choices.

Stay strong, OP! Don’t let the haters bring you down!

NTA. Friend envies au pair but understands different financial means.

NTA: Kids are expensive and time consuming. ♀️

Spot-on comment shuts down entitled people.

Mom defends herself against tired and cranky friend’s accusations.

Mom faces backlash for hiring help, friend feels jealous.

Setting realistic expectations: NTA for not sugarcoating motherhood.

Curious about the missing husband in this high-flying mom’s story?
