He Asked Her Out 3 Times and She Refused, Now She’s Jealous

Picture this: you grow up in a small village with a girl, let’s call her Amy, and you’re friends for years. You develop feelings for her and ask her out three times throughout your lives, but each time, she turns you down. You eventually move on and find love elsewhere. But when you finally make your new relationship Facebook official, Amy sends you a snarky message. How would you react? That’s the situation our friend here found himself in, and he’s wondering if he was in the wrong for firing back at her. Let’s dive into the story!

Small Village Beginnings

Childhood Friends

First Rejection

Friendship Recovery

Second Rejection

College City Life

Third Rejection

Post-College Life

Drifting Apart

New Love

Facebook Official

Insult or Misunderstanding?

Pig Accusations

Firing Back or Crossing the Line?

Our protagonist and Amy were childhood friends who grew up in a small village and went to the same college. Throughout their lives, he asked her out three times, but she always had an excuse to say no. Fast forward a few years, and he’s found love with a colleague. When they make their relationship Facebook official, Amy sends a snarky message, and he fires back with, “I asked you out three times.” Amy’s BFF then accuses him of being a disgusting pig only interested in hooking up. His girlfriend defends him, but he’s looking for an outside opinion on whether he crossed the line. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

Rejected multiple times, now jealous – NTA, move on

Dodging a bullet : Engaging with rejection in dating

Block these idiots and move on with your life. NTA

Don’t let her jealousy bring you down, be happy

Friend zoned and rejected, move on and forget the drama

Toxic Disney ideals, NTA. BFF’s opinion is worthless

User calls out Amy for being jealous and losing her chance. NTA

“Move on” from what? You’re NTA, enjoy your girlfriend!

Nice girl jealous but doesn’t want him, keep her

Moving on and finding love. Good for you!

Assertive response to ex who wants attention

Cutting out negativity: Block anyone who can’t stand your happiness

Supportive comment with a humorous twist, proposing marriage.

Not the a**hole and cut off toxic friend

Don’t let her jealousy bring you down ‍♂️

NTA, OP was put in the friend zone and deserves better

She rejected him 3 times and now she’s jealous?

When she doesn’t want you, but doesn’t want you to move on ‍♂️

Women who enjoy the attention but not the man.

Don’t let jealous friends ruin your relationship

Playing hard to get can backfire ‍♀️

Cutting off toxic friendships is tough but necessary. NTA

A poetic response to a rejected suitor

Missed chances and moving on, NTA gets closure

Don’t let anyone play with your heart , focus on happiness

Beware of the jealous girl and her BFF

Rejected girl couldn’t handle his happiness, dodged bullet

Don’t waste your time on selfish and immature people

She liked the power, now she’s salty. NTA.

NPC in her story: Commenter calls out attention-seeking behavior.

Don’t be a backup! Block her and move on

Moving on doesn’t mean you’re not happy for others

NTA. Sounds like Amy’s ego is bruised, not her heart

NTA. Amy and her BFF are DTAs . Don’t worry, be happy

NTA for moving on, but the friend’s insult went too far

Rejecting someone doesn’t give them a free pass

Amy’s jealousy and power trip exposed by NTA’s rejection

Being someone’s backup plan is never a good feeling ‍♀️

No drama here, just an immature friend and a great gf

Being kept as an option hurts no one but yourself

Don’t be anyone’s backup plan You deserve better

Move on, she had her chances and you deserve better.

Why leading someone on is never a good idea ‍♀️

The harsh reality of unrequited love

Respectful rejection and moving on

Rejected friend gets jealous after being turned down; NTA.

Savage response shuts down persistent suitor. NTA wins.

NTA. Woman keeps ‘safe men’ on back burner, shames man for moving on.

He dodged a bullet and found happiness.

Rejected 3 times, now jealous ex-girlfriend blames herself. NTA

Friend jealous after rejecting advances, lied about situation. NTA ‍♂️

Rejected 3 times, now she’s jealous? NTA, you dodged a bullet

Amy likes attention, got mad when he found someone else. NTA

Friend used him as backup, NTA for dropping her

Letting go of toxic friends is hard but necessary. NTA

Friendzoned and now jealous ‍♂️

NTA – She used him for attention and got mad when he moved on

Being a respectful fall back guy made her jealous

Moving on and living life, causing jealousy. NTA

NTA, friend kept you as a backup, now jealous. Listen to GF.

Moving on and finding love, ignore rude and crude comments

Jealousy and looks, but who’s the real a**hole?

Friendship never valued, move on and forget about her

Block her. Block her friends. Enjoy your new life.

Backup plan or scared? NTA wins with no regrets

Rejected friend gets jealous, NTA dodges unhealthy relationship